https://www.medhelp.org/user_posts/list/3164984 Medical communities and forums staffed by doctors from leading medical centers. Over 325 forums and communities providing medical information and medical help. en You should probably seek weekly counseling. It sounds pretty serious if you are having the urge to co Shelly Bullard Mon, 19 Nov 2012 14:05:28 -0500 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Confused/show/1844548#post_8532916 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Confused/show/1844548#post_8532916 Hello. I'm sorry that you have been stuck in an unhappy situation for so long. The only thing you can Shelly Bullard Wed, 07 Nov 2012 12:20:19 -0500 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/not-sure-what-to-do/show/1836303#post_8495560 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/not-sure-what-to-do/show/1836303#post_8495560 You are medicating with men (please read my blog on my website: shellybullard.com). You are numbing o Shelly Bullard Tue, 06 Nov 2012 17:55:59 -0500 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Need-advice-help/show/1837764#post_8493254 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Need-advice-help/show/1837764#post_8493254 Hello. Yes, you have to start getting comfortable with you first. No one can make us feel worthy if w Shelly Bullard Tue, 06 Nov 2012 17:48:07 -0500 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/VERY-nervous-to-Date-Feel-Inadequate-unworthy/show/1837040#post_8493224 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/VERY-nervous-to-Date-Feel-Inadequate-unworthy/show/1837040#post_8493224 I'm sorry that you are scared. Birth control is not 100% effective, so there is always a chance that Shelly Bullard Tue, 06 Nov 2012 17:37:28 -0500 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/16-and-scared/show/1838224#post_8493193 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/16-and-scared/show/1838224#post_8493193 A therapist! :) Shelly Bullard Tue, 06 Nov 2012 17:24:04 -0500 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Need-to-talk/show/1837099#post_8493153 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Need-to-talk/show/1837099#post_8493153 Yes, that is too much to ask. Because it isn't true. No one person can be there for us all the time. Shelly Bullard Thu, 01 Nov 2012 18:25:36 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/My-boyfriend-is-not-very-affectionate-or-sympathetic/show/1834343#post_8477162 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/My-boyfriend-is-not-very-affectionate-or-sympathetic/show/1834343#post_8477162 I guess I'm confused why you are in this relationship. From what you are saying it sounds like your g Shelly Bullard Thu, 01 Nov 2012 18:18:17 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/I-am-frustrated-with-my-girlfriend/show/1834328#post_8477140 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/I-am-frustrated-with-my-girlfriend/show/1834328#post_8477140 It is hard to say exactly what is going on, but from what you are saying it sound like he has some an Shelly Bullard Fri, 26 Oct 2012 11:13:51 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Sexual-Problems-with-my-partner/show/1831451#post_8457317 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Sexual-Problems-with-my-partner/show/1831451#post_8457317 Hello. I appreciate your sincerity. It is hard for me to tell if you have a lot of fear, which potent Shelly Bullard Wed, 24 Oct 2012 13:30:11 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/lack-of-experience-dont-know-what-to-do/show/1828599#post_8450976 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/lack-of-experience-dont-know-what-to-do/show/1828599#post_8450976 I'm really sorry but I have read this several times and I don't understand what the situation is. Who Shelly Bullard Fri, 19 Oct 2012 15:26:58 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Extreme-problem-with-husband-child-11-yrs-terminal-childnot-theirs-fostering/show/1827578#post_8435624 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Extreme-problem-with-husband-child-11-yrs-terminal-childnot-theirs-fostering/show/1827578#post_8435624 You are really young and you do have a lot of life to live. You can do that in the relationship or ou Shelly Bullard Fri, 19 Oct 2012 15:24:16 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/dont-know-what-to-do/show/1825939#post_8435617 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/dont-know-what-to-do/show/1825939#post_8435617 Well the foundation of a relationship is good communication. So it seems like a good idea to start th Shelly Bullard Fri, 19 Oct 2012 15:21:31 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Relation-complications/show/1825930#post_8435611 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Relation-complications/show/1825930#post_8435611 Hello. Your fear is what is holding you back and holding your relationship back. If you don't open up Shelly Bullard Mon, 15 Oct 2012 12:15:17 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Idk-if-we-will-last/show/1824793#post_8421937 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Idk-if-we-will-last/show/1824793#post_8421937 Hi. I have one question for you: do you praise him? What is missing in relationships is often the ver Shelly Bullard Mon, 15 Oct 2012 12:11:10 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Frustrated/show/1823976#post_8421928 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Frustrated/show/1823976#post_8421928 I'm sorry to hear this is happening to you. It sounds like this man is not ready to be in a committed Shelly Bullard Mon, 15 Oct 2012 12:06:09 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/My-husband-wont-stop-talking-to-other-women-iam-24wks-i-need-advice-please/show/1822133#post_8421915 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/My-husband-wont-stop-talking-to-other-women-iam-24wks-i-need-advice-please/show/1822133#post_8421915 Hello. I can hear how challenging this is for you. Here is the truth--you are not to blame for what i Shelly Bullard Tue, 09 Oct 2012 15:24:17 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/am-I-making-him-unhappy/show/1822162#post_8406337 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/am-I-making-him-unhappy/show/1822162#post_8406337 Hello. I'm so sorry. This definitely seems like a real challenging situation. There is really no wa Shelly Bullard Tue, 09 Oct 2012 15:13:00 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Cant-let-go/show/1821075#post_8406305 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Cant-let-go/show/1821075#post_8406305 Hello. I can hear how confused you are feeling. It is hard to be 16; there are a lot of different fee Shelly Bullard Wed, 03 Oct 2012 12:42:18 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/So-confused-about-my-sexuality-hocd/show/1818880#post_8386925 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/So-confused-about-my-sexuality-hocd/show/1818880#post_8386925 Hello. Here's my advice. To move beyond your feelings of jealousy you are going to have to bravely co Shelly Bullard Wed, 03 Oct 2012 12:31:41 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Im-dealing-with-jealousy-and-anxiety-regarding-relationship/show/1818669#post_8386884 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Im-dealing-with-jealousy-and-anxiety-regarding-relationship/show/1818669#post_8386884