https://www.medhelp.org/user_posts/list/765715 Medical communities and forums staffed by doctors from leading medical centers. Over 325 forums and communities providing medical information and medical help. en Mandita, Both are possible sources of difficulty. A good idea to check with the MD first to rule Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Sat, 09 Jul 2011 14:08:36 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/sexual-issues-with-boyfriend/show/1549488#post_7053205 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/sexual-issues-with-boyfriend/show/1549488#post_7053205 Dear Mandita, There are many things that could be causing the problem. The issue is to narrow dow Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Tue, 05 Jul 2011 20:30:13 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/sexual-issues-with-boyfriend/show/1549488#post_7043196 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/sexual-issues-with-boyfriend/show/1549488#post_7043196 Dear Some John Doe, Yes, I can indeed be contacted by email. Try me at rnpomerance followed by th Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Tue, 05 Jul 2011 10:34:27 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/I-cant-get-over-this/show/1540356#post_7042019 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/I-cant-get-over-this/show/1540356#post_7042019 Hello Tanya, First, my disclaimer: I haven't met you, your in-laws, or your husband. Individuals Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Sun, 15 May 2011 14:16:16 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/religious-differences/show/1514656#post_6908716 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/religious-differences/show/1514656#post_6908716 Hi Tanya, I want to give your question a considered response. It is complicated. I'll be back to Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Tue, 10 May 2011 16:51:31 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/religious-differences/show/1514656#post_6896304 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/religious-differences/show/1514656#post_6896304 Dear Giraffe, Thanks for the kind words! I’ve reviewed our previous communication of March las Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Fri, 08 Apr 2011 10:53:46 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Unworthiness/show/1482830#post_6807987 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Unworthiness/show/1482830#post_6807987 Dear Concerned, The more the objective data says he's doing right, the more you might want to loo Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Fri, 08 Apr 2011 10:30:27 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/I-think-Im-ruining-my-relationship/show/1495059#post_6807930 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/I-think-Im-ruining-my-relationship/show/1495059#post_6807930 Dear Concerned, First, my disclaimer of sorts: having never met either of you, the comments bel Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Thu, 07 Apr 2011 08:39:15 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/I-think-Im-ruining-my-relationship/show/1495059#post_6804598 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/I-think-Im-ruining-my-relationship/show/1495059#post_6804598 Dear Giraffe, Speaking for Medhelp admin, our apologies in not responding sooner. Personally, I ju Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Wed, 06 Apr 2011 17:20:50 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Unworthiness/show/1482830#post_6802931 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Unworthiness/show/1482830#post_6802931 Dear Concernedabit77, Speaking for Medhelp admin, our apologies in not responding sooner. Persona Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Wed, 06 Apr 2011 16:57:40 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/I-think-Im-ruining-my-relationship/show/1495059#post_6802880 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/I-think-Im-ruining-my-relationship/show/1495059#post_6802880 Hi Curious, Yes, I'd go a bit further, not in substance but in followup to the conversations you'v Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Sat, 17 Jul 2010 11:44:47 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/My-boyfriend-has-a-feminine-voice-and-I-dont-know-if-I-can-take-it-anymore/show/1283709#post_5922182 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/My-boyfriend-has-a-feminine-voice-and-I-dont-know-if-I-can-take-it-anymore/show/1283709#post_5922182 Dear Curious, Many people, when in a serious, genuinely intimate relationship, slip into “pet name Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Tue, 06 Jul 2010 17:01:02 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/My-boyfriend-has-a-feminine-voice-and-I-dont-know-if-I-can-take-it-anymore/show/1283709#post_5879056 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/My-boyfriend-has-a-feminine-voice-and-I-dont-know-if-I-can-take-it-anymore/show/1283709#post_5879056 Dear Chill, I understand you believe that your early relationships were just fine. And maybe they Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Fri, 21 May 2010 20:25:55 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Marriage-in-point-of-breaking-Searching-for-solution-Part-1/show/1238491#post_5708834 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Marriage-in-point-of-breaking-Searching-for-solution-Part-1/show/1238491#post_5708834 Comment is posted under Part One. Cordially, Dr. P. Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Fri, 14 May 2010 20:16:57 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Marriage-in-point-of-breaking-Searching-for-solution-Part-2/show/1238498#post_5682543 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Marriage-in-point-of-breaking-Searching-for-solution-Part-2/show/1238498#post_5682543 Dear Chill, I agree with Meral that you do have to find your own way. The various engagements at Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Fri, 14 May 2010 20:15:43 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Marriage-in-point-of-breaking-Searching-for-solution-Part-1/show/1238491#post_5682542 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Marriage-in-point-of-breaking-Searching-for-solution-Part-1/show/1238491#post_5682542 Dear Curious, People DO change, and at your age they can change quickly and without warning. Th Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Tue, 06 Apr 2010 19:09:03 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/online-friend/show/1209361#post_5543493 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/online-friend/show/1209361#post_5543493 Dear Carmenmiranda, There’s not much in your articulate second email that clarifies things. If th Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Sun, 04 Apr 2010 21:59:36 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Commitment-Phobe/show/1208529#post_5537025 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Commitment-Phobe/show/1208529#post_5537025 Dear Carmenmiranda, The term commitment-phobic is convenient, but doesn’t tell us much beyond wha Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Fri, 02 Apr 2010 15:48:50 -0400 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Commitment-Phobe/show/1208529#post_5531787 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/Commitment-Phobe/show/1208529#post_5531787 Dear Chailash, Got it! More important, you're beginning to! Though a tough situation for you, this Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Mon, 21 Dec 2009 21:39:16 -0500 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/I-lied-to-my-husband/show/1129474#post_5196363 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/I-lied-to-my-husband/show/1129474#post_5196363 Dear Chailash, I don’t know where you’re from, and whether the conventions of your country or r Richard Pomerance, Ph.D Mon, 21 Dec 2009 14:50:25 -0500 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/I-lied-to-my-husband/show/1129474#post_5195286 https://www.medhelp.org/posts/Relationship-Decisions/I-lied-to-my-husband/show/1129474#post_5195286