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Cognition v. Physical Disability

Aug 22, 2012 - 2 comments
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On another one of my active forums, there were 25-pgs of complaints over cognition loss.  While I fully and whole-heartily understand and sympathize with the loss of cognitive abilities, I could not believe my eyes when I began reading how people were wishing for physical disability over cognitive!  TWENTY FIVE PAGES.

I'm keeping my response to that thread in this journal as baseline and reminder for when I start to feel down or "in the blues" about my constant and declining cognitive abilities.  Sometimes it's easier to be the outsider looking in when you aren't in the "blues" moment and I know I will need this reminder as a pick me up since I am no longer on my wonder drug.

FORUM RESPONSE **Start*

Tysabri helped me get my memory back, my articulation, my being able to carry on a lengthy conversation without asking for help to finish it or find my words.

...I'm only 34!  This shouldn't be happening to me.  My 78 yr old grandma says, that's just life dear, listen to me -- I'm doing it too!  WTF?  Of course you're doing it... I'm only 34, this should not be happening to me!

I had to quit my higher pressure job in project management because I couldn't recall important information in meetings.  I couldn't carry on intelligent conversations while playing office politics.  I looked foolish and appeared uneducated where I used to dazzle and impress.

When I began Tysabri, my ability to speak improved.  My confidence regained.  I felt super-human and ready to be myself and live in my old self world again.  Then, I tested JCV + on my 12th infusion and have decided to not play russian rulette.  Death is not the only concern with PML.  There is complete bed ridden existence requiring assistance with dressing, eating, moving - for the rest of one's life.  I chose not to risk that and would rather have loss of memory and be able to independently put on my own underwear than sentence my husband to a lifetime of bathing and feeding me.

It truly saddens me to read some of you wish one disability over loss of cognition.  I understand your grief over losing our marbles. It promotes depression and loss of confidence, a loss of self worth.  I get it.  But so does physical disability.  I do not chose one over the other.  Neither one is more desirable over the other.

I decided to keep working, but a much less skilled job.  People still look at me funny when I can't complete my sentences, and I still feel like a total dumb arse, but at the end of the day -- I'm coming home feeling like I contributed something to my household for my DH who is working hard to help make my quality of life as best as it can be.  I want to do all I can while I can and not friggen complain about it.

I HATE that I can't find my words, I HATE that I'm not as confident in ability to outwit the next guy in a fast speaking come-back, I HATE that I can't recall a funny story that my husband recalls we did just last week... it does suck... but I'll tell you that I am thankful for all the symptoms I don't have and the things I still am able to do today while I can to enjoy my day :)

I have so much warmth and sympathy for all my MS friends... I just wish I knew some of you in the real world.

Day 32

Dec 12, 2009 - 0 comments

Eye pain this morning.  Less numb in foot, but still not 100%.

My heels aren't hurting :) no pain in the legs or arms today.  Maybe it will be a good weekend after all.

PM - pain stabs on top of feet, shins, top of knees, top of thighs and aches in hips.  Did a little shopping today.  Knees pains have been bothersome since after shopping.  I didn't experience any pain while walking, driving or shopping.  It all came in the evening, as usual.

Going to try some cardio exercise tomorrow.  Maybe building and stretching these muscles will help.


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Day 30

Dec 10, 2009 - 0 comments
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Numb toes and foot, and heel.  Pain in right calf - sharp.

Blurred vision.  Pain in heel and shin.  Sharp stabs in head.  Ringing in ears/

Tingling on left side when bent neck.

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Day 29

Dec 09, 2009 - 0 comments
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Vision worse than yesterday, eye pain - soreness.  When looking through sore eye, little spots of light flicker and dart in all directions.

Numbness in toes and foot.  Pain/soreness in neck and on sides of rib cage. Tingling when bent neck.

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