Well, I had the consultation with my OB/GYN... She said that due to my family history, she is recommends removing the right ovary only... with the caveat that if the left ovary looks bad, then everything comes out (both ovaries and uterus)... I asked her about leaving the uterus for future IVF (possibly with donor eggs) but she seems to think that that isn't possible - wants me to ask the RE... So, I have to schedule the surgery - ugh...

Good news - the adoption process is moving along, slowly but surely!  We have to take a psych evaluations - over 600 T/F questions - oh the good times... and who would have thought all of the paperwork and questionairres and forms and tests is easier than getting KNOCKED UP?!?!