Jun 02, 2008 08:32PM
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As of most of u know i was freaked out to here that my b/f had HPV. At the time i didnt even know what HPV was , as it was not stress about in our sex ed class in high school , it was always about herpes and such....As i stressed and worried for a month to get into 2 see my doc for a test..i am very happy to say that I am HPV free, the news of that takes the weight of my shoulders as i thought i was the one that gave it to my partner....As i researched and talked to my doc that it can take 3-12 months before u show anysigns i came to find out that my b/f had caught the disease from someone he was with 1 month before me who had told me she had it.As i was happy that he did not cheat i was angery that this woman did not tell him( the man i want to spend the rest of my life with)that she had the disease and gave it to him!
As this virus has come into my life im upset that they do not stress enough about the virus to teens in high school if i would have none about how easy this virus is passed and how it can cause cervix cancer i know alot more teens would not be so quick to jump into the sack , i am not saying that every teen girl is like this but this is the real world and its sad to say girls are so quick to lose there V Card.
Know i've only been with 2 people in my life time but i wish i would have waited and not been so quick to jump and throw it away...as i've found out that if u have been with at lease 3 sexual partners u've already came into contact with HPV.... scary eh?...
My b/f and I have been together for a year and 2months and counting and we both love each other very much ,as when we came to find out his results i dont think of him any less and have grown to love him more, i know as condoms to not fully protect you from HPV i think that some day he will prob infect me as well, I try not to think about it and keep living life as happy as the day we first met....
I'm not trying to upset anyone or anything by writting this , I just know that there are many people out there who Are or prob will soon be in my shoes and feel that same way and just to let them know that they are not alone and u will get through it.
thanks so much if u read and comment..:)