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Not the only bad news today...

Jun 29, 2009 05:18PM - 6 comments

So we just moved into, what i would not call as our dream house but the house that does fit all of our dreams, last Saturday. We found out over the weekend that the day we got the keys and started moving in was also the day that a default was placed against the house!!

As of right now, the foreclosure process has begun. We are devastated!! Not only do we now have to start looking to move again, but we wanted to buy this house and we dont know now, especially now (after the owners apparently lied their as*es off to us) if thats possible. We have contacted the county's recorders office, got the info. We have a friend who is a metro police officer to which told us, we might have to get an attorney and take them to small claims to get all of our moving costs taken care of. My brother's cousin is in law so i am waiting for him to call back with some pointers and give us some info on what we should do. I am so scared right now. I would normally not be so worried. In fact, i would be so in over my head angry that i would be aggressively calling around and getting things taken care of. BUT we have a baby due in 12 weeks and i cant deal with this. How can someone do this to us? We even asked and checked and there was no scare, a month ago, about what is going on today. And yet, they haven't even contacted us to let us know!! SO rent that is due Wednesday, HAH you are not seeing a d*mn DIME until we have something in writing from you and your bank stating you are trying to get your mortgage current or that it is current. Not that that matters, at this point, we do not feel we can trust them so unless we can get a loan and can purchase this house so that it is in our names and it is our responsibility, we have to move. And what makes me even more just BLAH is that we JUST freakin moved in. Obviously i cannot help with more then pillows and putting away tupaware bowls, i HATE asking for help. Now we have to ask again, for the second time in a month (well hopefully we will find a home soon, that isnt in any danger of foreclosure) for someone to help us. i feel pitiful. USED, scammed. i am trying my d*mndest to relax for Bryce's sake but how can i? i know im going to get an earful at my appointment on Wednesday and i am moments away from breaking down into full blown hysterics. All of this on the wake of my cousin, SERIOUSLY, i have to have 2 horrible years in a row. This was about the same time last year when our world started falling apart that ended with having to bury our son. I AM SO SCARED!!!!!! I know i asked for prayer for Brittanie but we need it too....I know that God only gives you what he knows you can handle but i thought our test was last year and as far as we could see, we thought we passed. Why are we getting another? i just dont know what to do at this point other then sit here and put everything out in the open for whoever wants to read it. *sigh* i have a headache and need to go lay down....Thanks again, if it werent for this site and knowing there are people that care and will listen, i think i would have lost it already!!  

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by Latrice414, Jun 29, 2009 05:44PM
its a shame that there are people like that in the world.  In return they will get what is coming to them.  I understand this is a stressful time for you, try your best not to be so stressed out, especially for the baby.  I will keep you and your family in my prayers and im sure something will come threw for you b4 the baby is due.  Take care and hang in there.

by Lance06, Jun 29, 2009 06:54PM
Aww.you poor thing! You have been through so much to only have to dela with more! Hang in there girl!!!!

by Juana824, Jun 29, 2009 08:50PM
D@man, Amberlee! That is really terrible! I am sos sorry you are going through all of this. That happened to a friend here in Chicago and she ended up having to move out...I really hope things work out for you and Jason.

by Hoping4_2, Jul 05, 2009 04:20PM
Are you serious???? After all you have put into this house? Oh Amberlee, I am so sorry.

by cure65roses, Jul 05, 2009 04:51PM
Sorry to hear that, Amberlee!  But remember your blood pressure and try not to let yourself get too upset.  It will all work out okay, just take some deep breaths, and start looking for the path that will take you to your next home.   =)

by Asking4aMiracle, Jul 05, 2009 06:21PM
We contacted the owners after we found this info out and as of right now, things are straightened out and we will be here through our lease agreement....it was a miss communication on their side and because we have never gone through anything like this, we got completely scared out of our minds! Thanks Ladies and please just pray we get to buy this house because we have already made it our home!!

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