Mar 04, 2014
I need some input.
So last night I was making dinner. It was hot in our apartment because I had the stove on. So I had my comfies on. Comfy pants and a tank top. Now keep in my mind this tank top shows ZERO. NO extra skin, NO boobies, NO cleavage. NOTHING. Only thing was I didn't have a bra on underneath. I'm at home, I can wear whatever the heck I want.
So anyway, there was a knock at the door. I looked at DH and he was busy helping Preston with his dinner. So I answered the door. It was the landlord coming by for rent. This was the last person I was expecting to see cause he never comes at dinner time.
So while I was getting dinner on the table, DH asked me why I answered the door like that. I stopped for a moment and I said i'm sorry. Then he made a rude comment. So I said I didn't answer the door naked or have my boobs hanging out. And then he said well there's my answer. So I said what's the difference between having a bra on or not having one on. He looked at me like I was crazy. And I said no I want to know what the difference is. He said it doesn't matter. I don't give a f*ck anymore. I don't want a wife like THAT. Wtf?!?!?!
So dinner was silent. It's never been that silent at the dinner table before. Even Reilly who never stops talking was quiet the whole time. He just kept looking between me and DH. He's never really seen us argue.
The whole evening was silent. We never talked to each other. I couldn't look at him. Even when we went to bed, I never kissed him goodnight or said I love you. I ended up sleeping on the couch.
This morning was just as quiet. Didn't give him a kiss bye or I love you.
So i'm wondering...was it me? Was I being insensitive? Or sl*ttish as he implied? Or was he being an @sshole? If it was me, then I'll apologize.
I would like both male and female input on this.