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15 days to next hemo appt....hoping to be TTC ahortly after
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Female, 28, NC
everybody has their own story...heres a piece of mine...i moved from PA to NC in Sept 07...i have been living with my bf and am very much in love with him...i was preg Nov 07 but had a mc in March 08 .... im still devastated by the mc but im working through it and the s...
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needing some time off
May 05, 2008 09:01AM
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things sure havent been the same since my miscarriage. there's not a day that goes by that i dont miss my little baby. i recently have been diagnosed with factor 5 blood clotting disorder. i dont understand it but the doctor is pretty sure that is what caused my miscarrige. im not being told that i should not be TTC as this condition is genetic and i have to see a hemotologist for further testing along with blood thinner medicine. my ob thinks ill be able to TTC in 3-6 months again, but its up to my hemo doc when he feels will be best for me. so im out. forawhile too :(
as much as this pains me i know its what is right. i want another child in the worse way but am i willing to give me up my own life and take away my sons mom to make this happen...no its best to get this all figured out
my partner is completely freaked out now. he says that he wants to become more financially stable before we start TTC again which i agree to an extent. i make pretty good money and have been at my job for awhile so im stable. i just think he's scared from what is going on with the doc
ive decided since its just about summer...well it is in NC...im going to take the summer off (or a couple months of it) and get outdoors with my son, try to lose some weight, continue seeing my hemo doc and get myself back together.
i know its for the best and im confident ill be TTC soon again
i dont know how much ill make it these forums since ill be trying my best to stay busy and keeping my mind occupied on other things than having a baby
i have made a lot of friends on here and i really hope you will stay in touch with me. if you would like to stay in touch with me please send me info to stay in touch with you....such as email address, myspace page, or any other form of communication
i dont want to lose my friends from here...i just need to take time for me right now
as much as this pains me i know its what is right. i want another child in the worse way but am i willing to give me up my own life and take away my sons mom to make this happen...no its best to get this all figured out
my partner is completely freaked out now. he says that he wants to become more financially stable before we start TTC again which i agree to an extent. i make pretty good money and have been at my job for awhile so im stable. i just think he's scared from what is going on with the doc
ive decided since its just about summer...well it is in NC...im going to take the summer off (or a couple months of it) and get outdoors with my son, try to lose some weight, continue seeing my hemo doc and get myself back together.
i know its for the best and im confident ill be TTC soon again
i dont know how much ill make it these forums since ill be trying my best to stay busy and keeping my mind occupied on other things than having a baby
i have made a lot of friends on here and i really hope you will stay in touch with me. if you would like to stay in touch with me please send me info to stay in touch with you....such as email address, myspace page, or any other form of communication
i dont want to lose my friends from here...i just need to take time for me right now
by rukiyar, May 05, 2008 09:20AM
If you ever want to get in touch with me my email is ***@****, I will be more than happy to stay in touch with you I understand your decsion 100% , but if your results come back positive I hope you do stick around, either way my email is always open to you.
by Emmylou1981, May 06, 2008 08:14AM
Hey Honey,
I know how hard it is not to want a baby right away after you have a miscarriage. I think you are making a wise decision to take some time off from TTC and work. Your body needs to heal and you also need to heal emotionally.
It took me months to get over my miscarriage and I was only 6 weeks, so I can not even imagine what you are going through. Be selfish and think about you fro a while. What you went through was very serious. Spend time with your adorable son and try to enjoy life because God knows it goes by too fast.
My email is: ***@****
Feel free to email me anytime you need to talk.
Hugs and Prayers,
Emily
I know how hard it is not to want a baby right away after you have a miscarriage. I think you are making a wise decision to take some time off from TTC and work. Your body needs to heal and you also need to heal emotionally.
It took me months to get over my miscarriage and I was only 6 weeks, so I can not even imagine what you are going through. Be selfish and think about you fro a while. What you went through was very serious. Spend time with your adorable son and try to enjoy life because God knows it goes by too fast.
My email is: ***@****
Feel free to email me anytime you need to talk.
Hugs and Prayers,
Emily
by waitn838, May 06, 2008 01:22PM
ladies...email addresses arent populating on here
please send me you email address or if you have messangers your screen name and ill stay in touch
please send me you email address or if you have messangers your screen name and ill stay in touch
by Mea426, May 13, 2008 03:18PM
I totally get where your coming from. I feel the same way!! I'm glad I'm not the only one who is doing this!! :)
by adgal, May 15, 2008 09:20AM
I know you have been through so much emotionally, and it is so great to hear you sounding so strong and so positive. I have no doubt that it won't be too long before you conceive again, and I think you are so wise to deal with this medical issue first. I wish you nothing but the best, and hope you are healthy again soon. Take good care. Support is always here if you need it. I am going to try to message you my email address, and I really hope you stay in touch.
Take care, and all the best to you and your family,
Amanda
Take care, and all the best to you and your family,
Amanda
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