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My little peanut!
Jul 01, 2009 12:35PM
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It has been 5 days since they took you out of me. All I can think about is you! Even though you were only the size of an orange seed I miss you terribly! I used to touch my belly and tell you how long I have waited for you, and even though you are so brand new I love you more than anything in this world..and I used to tell you to grow and be healthy! Now I touch my belly and cry and think your gone now! I know time will heal this wound and if we get blessed with another little baby I will never forget you, you have given me hope.
During my ultrasound I was so devestated at the news and everything was happening so fast that I didnt get the details of my ultrasound. Yesterday at my doctors appointment I got a copy of my U/S pics and the info they put down. One of the pics I can see your perfect little head and body..then I started to read what they had wrote and it broke my heart to know that your heart was beating..111bpm...I will never understand why this happend, why if there is a god he would let this happen. Am I not a good person, am I not meant to be a mother. It seems like everytime I get so close to this dream of becoming a mother, it seems like something takes it away!
I dont know, I just needed to vent and get this off my chest!
During my ultrasound I was so devestated at the news and everything was happening so fast that I didnt get the details of my ultrasound. Yesterday at my doctors appointment I got a copy of my U/S pics and the info they put down. One of the pics I can see your perfect little head and body..then I started to read what they had wrote and it broke my heart to know that your heart was beating..111bpm...I will never understand why this happend, why if there is a god he would let this happen. Am I not a good person, am I not meant to be a mother. It seems like everytime I get so close to this dream of becoming a mother, it seems like something takes it away!
I dont know, I just needed to vent and get this off my chest!
Hunny, I am so sorry. Gave me cold chills when I saw the title "my little peanut" because that is what I call my little Sarah! She is my peanut and always has been ever since she was born.
We cant explain why these things happen...and it is truly probably the hardest things we will ever have to endure in life...but it does make us stronger. You willhave many people tell you that god only gives you things you can handle...and I know that doesnt make it any easier..but it is so true.
Hang in there girl.....it took me quite some time to get through my m/c and I know in this situation, it is def going to take some healing..we are all here for you if you need to talk!
hugs*
steph
We cant explain why these things happen...and it is truly probably the hardest things we will ever have to endure in life...but it does make us stronger. You willhave many people tell you that god only gives you things you can handle...and I know that doesnt make it any easier..but it is so true.
Hang in there girl.....it took me quite some time to get through my m/c and I know in this situation, it is def going to take some healing..we are all here for you if you need to talk!
hugs*
steph
Oh honey, I am so very sorry. It's heartbreaking even to read about. I hope that you will get another chance and the peanut will be back growing in you.
Im so sorry, i know it not easy, I saw my babys heart beat the first time at 6 weeks , when i went for my second visit at 9weeks coudn't find a heart beat. So u/s confirmed it was a missed miscarriage, So hard at that moment. You go expecting one thing and it turns out to me something else. But stay hopeful you will have another little baby soon!!!
I am very sorry for your loss.
All best,
LMC
All best,
LMC
I definitely agree with everyone who has written back to you....It is a heartwrenching experience that only you can uniquely describe and feel....you've demonstrated to be a strong woman b/c you're still with us venting about it....Keep your head up high...and keep trying...Don't give up!
I am so sorry. Your post has pulled at all of our heartstrings. It is so unfair to be blessed with a pregnancy and then have it taken away. I know you will one day be holding a beautiful bundle of joy. We are all thinking of you.
Hugs,
Kelly
Hugs,
Kelly
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