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Jul 01, 2009 - 4 comments
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today was my original due date for my son. i am just really sad today. and i am sick of hearing "dont think about it. you're pregnant now" yeah but being pregnant doesnt mean that i am not going to be sad that my son is not with me... grrrr

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by xMrsHyslopx, Jul 01, 2009
Hi, I know exactly what you mean im pregnant so people automatically assume you will get over your loss - My baby would have been due 24th sept so my husband and I have booked a holiday by the beach an gonna do summit special xxx Lots of love xx

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by DMarie919, Jul 01, 2009
I'm sorry mandalynn...I can understand that you feel the way you do..I can't believe how insensitive people can be...when they think they are saying something to "make you feel better".   My edd was Sept. 19th so I know that even if I am pg (I HOPE I AM!) by then I'm sure the pain will still be there.  I think you have the right idea MrsHysplox....a vacation would be a good idea....maybe I should think about that!!!

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by Nat1227, Jul 02, 2009
I know honey. I think people want us to just let it go but you can't that was your child. I've learned not to reallly talk to many people about it because mostly it just really makes me mad because of the heartless things they say. No matter what pregnant or not we'll never for the babies we lost because they were ours. So God Bless! Be strong.

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by Missy0826, Jul 04, 2009
I am sorry for your loss.  I know just how you feel, my due date was on June 21st, fathers day, and it was an awful day for me.  Unfortunately it still is so hard, I am having trouble moving on.  Nobody can tell you how long you should grieve, everyone is different.   Also, I find that it is people who've never had difficulties getting pregnant or never had a miscarriage that don't understand and expect you to get over it.  I am very happy to hear that you are pregnant once again, this gives me hope, as I am still trying to concieve once again without any luck.  You are in my thoughts....

Missy

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