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Misinterpretation

May 07, 2008 06:13AM - 3 comments

Being on this forum has sure taught me so much about learning about the cycle of anxiety.  I have answered many posts and PM’s about peoples’ concerns about their physical symptoms.  They often wonder how this all could just be anxiety when they actually feel horrible (i.e. aches, pains, tiredness, etc).  Instead of rambling on, I will try to be as concise as possible.

Remember, when we are feeling anxious, it does take a huge toll on us both physically and mentally.  Being at such a high state of alertness for so long causes us great fatigue.  In my opinion, this is a huge factor in keeping us in this never ending cycle of worry, panic, worry.  We also tend to misinterpret many feelings that people just shrug off of every day.  I usually ask people what they thought of a headache or aches and pains before suffering through this, and overwhelmingly they said that they would pop a Tylenol or aspirin and shrug it off.  But now because of our concerns these aches and pains often become catastrophic in our minds.  So, when I was dealing with this (and I still am to a certain degree), I decided to accept that there was probably nothing major wrong with me and trusted the doctors.  In my mind, acceptance of this cycle over medical symptoms is one of the most important steps in breaking it.  Once you accept it, you open your mind to learning about it, confronting and beating it.  


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by gentle51, May 11, 2008 10:14PM
Chris,

I am behind the power curve in making comments on your journal. You are doing so well now it is important for you to pat yourself on the back for your accomplishments. HURRAY! I know how hard of work dealing with anxiety is I live it daily. Unfortunately I am back to weekly therapy due to dealing with my son having problems in
Florida. This too shall pass I know.. So , go out and be triumphant in your quest to be anxiety free..I am trying to tell myself that daily.

PEACE,
Marie


by Isaiah4110, May 16, 2008 11:28AM
Hey Chris,

I love this journal entry of yours..it really does give hope to those who are feeling despondent and filled with despair..I just hope that they'll get to know you, and see for themselves that they can beat this & start living & enjoying their lives again, just like you did..

You've done good! ;-)

Btw, thanks for your insights, support & encouragement these past few days.

God Bless,
Isaiah4110

by lonewolf07, May 16, 2008 12:04PM
Everyone heals in their own way.  What is good for one might not be good for another.  IMHO, I think we have to be careful about "universalizing" how to handle our anxiety.  There is a lot of diversity in this forum, not just in terms of problems but in terms of the people who come here for help.

The Anxiety Forum has a lot of good people in here who have helped me by sharing, caring, not being judgemental and by their senses of humor.  The healing process isn't easy and having a few laughs during this healing journey makes it just a little bit easier.

lonewolf




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