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having a hard time tonight w cravings and is going to bed
About Me:
Female, NM, member since Feb 2008
I'm married with 3 children. I have had a problem for some reason in my life to getting adicted to drugs, Thought I grew up, guess not. now it's oxy's Not a very bright person i guess.
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not giving up
May 08, 2008 08:47PM
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I have decided that my friends here are right about me not giving up on hubby and try to talk soooo I have made a plan. Fri nite my little girl is going to go spend the nite w/her cousin and i told my boy's they can stay out till 1am instead of midnite..I am going to get some nice steaks maybe baked potato's, sal. and instead of wine he loves his beer so beer and tons of candles...maybe we can sit down and have romantic nite and have a heart to heart talk. Its going to be hard its like we are strangers agian but there has to be something there for us to of stayed togather for so many yrs. we use to have so much fun back when i partied with him. we were always togather party till way in the morn. and then would still just talk for hours and lauph and dream, it was great! I want him back. I stopped the heavy parting about 12 yrs into the marriage when the kids came along, didn't want to be drunk or stoned all the time, wanted to be a good mom, but he kept on with the party without me, so how can we come back togather. I hope we will be able to talk it out, i want and need love from him so much, i am tierd of being alone and lonley even when he is home, he is always so drunk, he comes home to pass out thats about it. Hasn't slept in our bed in yrs. passes out on couch and thats where he wants to stay. I am hoping to get my bestfriend, husband, lover, soulmate back. I am willing to change anyway i can i hope he is. God please help please here my prayers for this!
I hope so too for the best to work out for you so you can have what you want and need. Michael
I hope that you can work this out if that is what you want and it sounds like you do. That is great and I really am hoping you get your best friend, lover, and soul mate back! Best of luck to you! You deserve to be happy!!
hay hunny, i am so glad to reead this post. this will happen for you. just remember your marriage didnt here ver nite. it mite take some time to get where you want to go with it. of course the steak and candles will help. you know we are rooting for you! you are the best! your hubby will see that. you know i am here if you get nervous or dont know what to do, just send me a text, i will walk you through it. LMAO
love ya g/f
cathy
ps--dont forget the thong!!!! that mite be the most important thing. hell, grab him a speedo
love ya g/f
cathy
ps--dont forget the thong!!!! that mite be the most important thing. hell, grab him a speedo
Thanks for all the support guy's...your great!
ok cathy i just might text ya lol....got everything and getting it ready, even cleaned hot tub hehehehhehh, oh i forgot to go buy a speeedo, think i will get him a black one w/the devil on ***.....told hubby about dinner and he said he would be home early at 6 so everything is set. I dont know about the thong cathy lol well see.....I am all excited its almost like going on a date agian,except I'm doing all the work and cooking lol...whatever works huh... lets hope neighbor isn't out when its hot tub time lmao.....
ok cathy i just might text ya lol....got everything and getting it ready, even cleaned hot tub hehehehhehh, oh i forgot to go buy a speeedo, think i will get him a black one w/the devil on ***.....told hubby about dinner and he said he would be home early at 6 so everything is set. I dont know about the thong cathy lol well see.....I am all excited its almost like going on a date agian,except I'm doing all the work and cooking lol...whatever works huh... lets hope neighbor isn't out when its hot tub time lmao.....
Sounds like a good plan...how could you go wrong...your heart's in it, you have food (good food), and you're you. If you run out of stuff to say, feel free to relate my mechanical bull riding story : ) Like Cathy says, your marriage did not get here overnight...don't expect it all back at once either. When I was super-sick, my hubby and I, although got along, missed out on the closeness we had shared...then, when things started to get better, I figured I had better initiate things since he probably would never know to do it, and again...we loved each other, but it was strange at first...It had been a while. In any event, I initiated, and at first, he wasn't sure what to make of it because of how things were there for a bit. It became cool very quickly, and we went out on many dates for a while, and still do. If you love him, fighting for him is worth it!
Thank you Jacqui...ya if i run out of things to say i can always tell him your bull riding story, thats better then my truckers story LMAO...dont think he would get such a kick out of that one, do you? Thank you for sharing your story w/your hubby it gives me hope..I have real good feeling about tonite :)
bobby, you think you can take a break around say 10 and im me with an update??
Depends if I am sitting, standing or laying down LMAO
Nice.... ; ) You did forget some more creative positions though.... ahem..I'll behave now I swear.
ya i know i did...on purpose LMAO
nite girls, hubby should be home in about a half, everythings ready...!! :)
not looking good....hubby is a hour in a half late :(
Hubby never came home, **** dont know what to say.
awww..what?!! Where is he..i'm sorry honey..Lord plese be with bobby and her husband and help him to see his need to get back his marraige in the way you would have it to be for them..Please let him see his need to change and also let him see how willing bobby is to change..bless them both in Jesus name..Amen
Sad...thank you hon for being such a sweet person! and thanks for the prayer. I hope you not in as much pain today and can have a nice mothers day this weekend! I am fine dont worry!
love ya
love ya
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