what frustrates you and how do you deal with it?

ok so im feeling frustrated with my almost 10 yr old son, i hear its a boy thing but man o man, he doesnt hear half of what i say, he forgets what i told him to do because that toy landed in his peripheral vision along the way, and has all the answers to life already.

im frustrated with dh being gone, but he will be home in just over a week.  i have done a dam.n good job of caring for everything all by my self i must say, but today i could sit in a hot tub without kids, have a glass of wine and eat cookie dough till i pop, then cry about the cookie dough and how much i miss the kids and then take a nap haha.  

am i the only one that gets kinday crazy like this???
but instead of doing all that, i put the baby down for a nap, left son to watch tv, and im venting to you all about my day. what do you do to relieve the pressures?