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Need to vent im so angry

May 25, 2014 - 7 comments

Im not sure if other people have got this kind of treatment from either people they dont know, or friends or even family

Im so angry and upset

My daughter was an ivf/iui baby using donor sperm
She is niw 2years old and a beautiful intelligent girl with an amazing personality

So why is it that her so called aunt.  Cant treat her like a neice or a person

To our faces she is all my neice is so beautiful and even on facebook  is doting aunt and uncle

You see she found out we was pregnant a few weeks after us and as a result her and her husband havent been the aunt and uncle we wanted for her,  after all they waited 10years to be an aunt and uncle to our baby. And as a result lottie hasnt had the attention she should have

I am so angry. Because her daughters birthday is this week. And shes leaving charlotte out

Yet she invited her other neice and her godson over for a party and few other people. She tried to keep it a secret but we iver heard her talking

As an aunt why would you leave your neice out of her cousins birthday

It not first time. Either. She always doing it

It  feels like because charlotte is not. Biologically related to them she doesnt matter. And is left out of everything.

Has anybody else had people do this to them

Im so sad and angry this is a little girl who isnt aware of her background. And is here to be loved  and accepted

Her nan adores her she treated no diff
Her aunt was aware of all treatments and how we had to go around it she. Was fine and all accepting and now she here she dont give a dam


Its really upset and annoyed me


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by xx_Louise_xx, May 26, 2014
If they treat little lottie that way, then they don't deserve to have her in their life anyway. My oldest Steven, doesn't have the same dad as Riley. But they all treat Steven the same as Riley and he isn't blood related to them at all.. They shouldnt be leaving her out, that's totally unfair. You don't need people like that in your life, concentrate on the family who do care, they're all u need :)

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by clog5, May 28, 2014
Thank you louise it make sme so angry and sad for lottie
Thats what my fb rant was over

It true though these ppl dont count anymore to us, if they can leave a baby out because of how she came to be here, there not sort of  people i want around us or her

I hope riley is ok. Hes so gorgous   Not long til wedding you nervous yet xx

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by xx_Louise_xx, May 29, 2014
Yes very nervous, under 2 months now!

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by clog5, Jun 07, 2014
Yourl be fine i was ok til it came to vows then i shool so much it looked like i was bei g forced lol

Hope you all well

Hows riley getting on at nursery

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by mhv, Jun 07, 2014
I think that is crazy!!!!  I would be so tempted to tell her exactly how I felt too!  Lol!  We told no family members we used donor embryos, because there is always someone who doesn't "get it".  Our children will know of course...  But grown ups can be idiots!!!  

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by plumber43, Jun 08, 2014
Wow, what has your mil said about not inviting you to the party? That's awful! What about your DH? Has he had it out with them? I'm sorry ppl are stupid, you really can't change narrow minded ppl, surround yourself with good loving ppl and just forget her!! Your baby is beautiful! Shame on them!

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by clog5, Jun 10, 2014
Thank you plumber and mhv.
We had it out with her, told her if she cant treat charlotte as family she has to keep away
She tried to play dumb and making out she didn't realise she did
Then after i had a rant on fb  i didn't name names but she suddenly started calling and asking if it was about her (this was before we had it out with her). If she wasn't aware she treated charlotte any different why would she think that was about her guilty  conscience  

We are in middle of referral  to try for number 2  so if she cant handle the way, our babies are conceived she can keep away, its not our fault ithas  to be this way, bit thats our life and we don't need her to except it because we already do and thats what counts, anybody who meets charlotte doesn't know how she came to be and they love her without knowing

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