16 DPO no AF but Deanna explains.

Hi, I thought I'd fill in on what's happened over the last couple of days. Nothing, that is what.  Have taken 3 tests all negative with not even an evap line to get my hopes up. It is 16 DPO but as yet no period, just horrible cramps. I came accross Deanna Roy's website on pregnancy loss where she wrote the following:

"It is very disheartening to see month after month go by without getting pregnant again, especially when your cycles are not the same as before. You will constantly feel you are pregnant but test negative, and you will feel certain you are having early miscarriages. This is a very very common feeling, but usually it is not true.

You will also face another problem. Post miscarriage cycles are all over the place, sometimes coming on day 22 (making women think they have a luteal phase defect) and other times coming weeks late (making women spend a fortune on pregnancy tests.) This is all a very common scenario in the months following the loss. It happened to me too. Just keep trying, and trust the pregnancy tests. They are accurate. Your hormones right now, however, are not..."  www.pregnancyloss.info

Deanna's words made me cry so much but at least they helped me make sense of what might be happening. Of course I can't help clinging to the miniscule little hope that maybe...just maybe, because I've prayed and all prayers must be answered but I also understand that the process of answered prayer can take a little longer to manifest.
Will keep you posted.