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So mad.

Jun 23, 2008 01:47PM - 4 comments

Well I just have to vent for a minute. Well as most of you know I have been having lots of drama with Ayla's dad. First of all last night he came to "spend time with her". But what he really did was come, eat, look at her for a minute, watch a movie, and fall asleep, and go home. Wow. Then today at 11, we were supposed to go get a playpen for Ayla to sleep in. Now it's 12.. I call him. "Well I'm busy right now. I think I'll be there at about 2. WTF. I'm sorry but it takes a lot to wake her up, get her dressed, get me dressed, and her diaper bag ready. So excuse me if I'm not feeling very happy about waiting 3 hours later. UH. I am so mad!

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by mami1323, Jun 23, 2008 01:55PM
I'm sorry you have to go through this.  Some men, even one's my age, don't get how difficult it is to plan around a young baby.  However, I think your problems with Ayla's father go beyond this one incident.  You may have to think about doing things on your own and not wait around for him to decide if he feels like going or seeing the baby or whatever is more important then doing what's right for his child.  He seems very immature and I believe I've answered one of your posts before but he doesn't seem very interested in being a parent.  You make plans with him in hopes that he will WANT to see Ayla but then he winds up disappointing you in some way.  Forget about him and just do what's best for you and your daughter.  When and if he decides he wants to be a father to her then allow him the opportunity to see her.  As of now, you're wasting too much precious energy on him.  I hope that you can move forward some how and know that you and Ayla deserve better.

by Jenny100, Jun 23, 2008 01:55PM
Thats a man for you!!! They don't realize that when you have a baby, things have to happen on THE BABY'S SCHEDULE!!!! You go when the best time FOR HER is. Man I don't blame you! what a pain. What if shes tired again by 2:00??? Did he ever think of that???
I'm sorry honey. You are dealing with so much c r a p. You are such a good little mommy though. Hang in there and you go right ahead and complain to us when you need to!!! :) *HUGS*

by girl0319, Jun 23, 2008 02:03PM
Thank you ladies so much!!! And at 2 is when she usually eats so you see!!! UH man!! You guys are right.. Im wasting way 2 much time on this little boy!

by nsgirl, Jun 23, 2008 05:29PM
hi, sorry to hear your having such a hard time, i have 3 children and there father has nothing to do with them, but yet he can help raise his girlfriends 2 children, sometimes life is like that i guess, hold your head up high and remember you will always be around to see all the babys firsts and that is something maybe if he keeps going the way he is, he might miss out on. good luck to you and your baby, enjoy being a mother and take everyday one step at a time
best wishes
alicia

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