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just need some who feels my pain
Dec 07, 2007 03:09PM
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I have been pregnant 5 times I am 21 yrs old and i have a 4 yr old and a 1yr old. this year i have miscarried twice my last one that i lost was 2 weeks ago. was dead at 5 weeks the sac stopped growing and killed ny baby i was 10 weeks when i found out my baby was dead and i had to go in and have pills inserted on my cervix to cause my miscarry it. my husband wants another baby so bad right now but i have lost two this year and i am heart broken from it. i told him i want to wait for a while so my body can hill but im scared that if we wait to long i wont want another one and at this point i feel that if i have another baby i wont have a bond with my other two like i do now. my daughter is at a stage to where she's independent and my son is so attached to me he was a blessing baby i almost lost him during my pregnancy and right after i had him i was in a bad car wreck on my way to pick him up from the babysitters what would have happend if he was with me. i love both my kids the same but some times i feel i love my son a little more. what if we have another one am i going to be that way with it.
Your awfully young to have had so many pregnancies. A 4 yr old and a 1 yr old need lots of attention. I would say you need to wait until you are completely sure. You have another 20 child bearing years ahead you. Please don't be in such a hurry. Take your time to enjoy the wonderful blessings you have. I hope your husband will listen to your needs and be willing to wait until you are sure you're ready for another baby.
hello im 25 married with 5 year old son. i just lost my baby at 5 months pregnant nobody understands the pain of losing a baby like some1 who has actuallly went through it. losing a baby no mater how far along you are is devasting physicallly and mentally and sometimes men dont understand that. you guys have been blessed with two beautiful children and should be so greatful for them which im sure that you are. so i think you should just wait and take sometime to heal and enjoy what you have already. your body is probrably not ready now . it doesnt mean you will never have another baby. There are women who have contiuos loses and they dont even have any children to come home to. think about how blessed you are. i know that during this difficult time in my llife i thank God that he gave me the opportunity to have my son who right now is my strenght and of course God who is going to get me through this. dont worry take one day at a time to cherish what you have, which is so much to be greatful for. God bless.
You know i have been in the same situation my daughter is 5 and my son will be 2 in March. i as well almost lost my son when he was born, i also had a wreck last year in February and my husband says i pay more attention to my son then to my daughter but i know how you feel believe me i have tried to spend time with my daughter its just she is really independent and doesnt need my help as much as my son. I am 19 be 20 in june i have been pregnant 6 times 4 miscarrages and i am scared i wil not be able to have any more kids i want anothe one really bad. My husband does not want any more. I am scared if we dont have another one right now i will not be able to have any later when he is ready. I dont know how to tell him. But go to the dr to find out why your having misscarrages they are very scarry.... if your husband wants another baby, tell him let your body rest, take some vitamins, and when you are ready let him know dont let him push you into it. If you wold like to talk sometime here is my e mail addresses I hope this helped if not just write me k
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