Pain

Okay, I am not a doctor and you may need to see one but if there is pain, it may because you are not stimulated enough. Generally, if a woman is comfortable and relaxed, and her partner takes his time until she is ready, her body will produce the natural 'lubrication' or 'wetness' that she needs to make sex pain-free.

If this is not something that is not possible and/or if it doesn't work, try using lubricant. You can purchase inexpensive, water-based lubricants. They make vaginal sex easier and decrease the likelihood of pain.

Also, if you can, see a doctor that you trust; a female gynecologist who is culturally sensitive would be ideal. Not because there's anything 'wrong' but because it's never a bad idea to check in with a good doctor that you trust.

I hope this helps.

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