trying to concieve after abnormal fetus

Hi, im sorry for your loss, i had missed m/c june 12th is what they said at er, i was 10weeks and 3days, u/s showed baby was 10 weeks.  I had d/c on june 17th, took hcg levels july 10th and they were 29, i go back in 10 days and hoping my levels are at zero so i can ttc in august.

I've had 2 m/c.  One March, 2006 and the second was February, 2008.  Husband and I are currently TTC.  I got a faint HPT today, but I'm afraid it might be wishful thinking, so I'm going to wait and test again in the morning, as that is a day before AF is due.  I'm not going to lie, I'm scared to death to get pregnant again.  Especially, since I went through all the testing and nothing could be found that was wrong with me or my husband.  So, we have to put it in God's hands and know that what is meant will happen.  You know when the time is right to try again.  I knew now was right because me wanting a baby outweighs the fear of having a m/c again.  Good luck to you!

I had a m/c on May 23 2008,it would have been my first child. I found out when i was preg. that i had a dermoid cyst on my left ovary. The cyst grew so quickly that i ended up m/c @ 10 weeks, the cyst was 11cm. it out grew the baby,and had me in alot of pain. I had to have a d/c and have the cyst removed, by the grace of God, it didn't do any damage to my ovaries. I'm ttc but i'm so afraid,i'm going nuts!!!!!  I think i might be pregnant but i'm too afraid to take the test,which is hard on my husband. Please Pray for me ladies i need it.

it sure is fear and excitement all in one.  After the whole experience, I knew this would be a scarey adventure from then on.  There is no simple joy that other people have, but I am willing and ready to try again.  It is in gods hands.  I always am so thankful for my husband and the life we have.  Nothing can ever change that.  If it is not meant to be for us, then that is a path we can cross together.  We have been together 7 years and my heart still races when I see him or kiss him...it seems like we have so much love to give a child, but we can only take what is given to us.
i guess for us now is the next step...getting pregnant again!!  

To everyone who wrote tia, krushing and Latice...thankyou...it is so nice to have people to talk to.  Tia...take the test!!!  The stress would drive me crazy and can't be good for you.  We are all here for you:)