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Mice and Men

Jul 16, 2008 06:29PM - 6 comments

I've been back "home" about a month and things are barely tolerable, except on his days off when they are worse.  I appreciate all your prayers and kind words... but one person's trying and the other is barely tolerating.  I wish I could "reach" the man I used to know, but his phone appears to be disconnected... He's still moody and isn't sitting around the house all the time and likes his job, it's me he appears to have the problem with.

The great kindness people have shown to me and the support I've been getting on this site have made a difference in my life!!  I really appreciate all of you!!  I've let a lot of my stuff stay packed, my heart problem appears stable with medication and I see a Neurologist next week about the RSD and Fibro stuff... I "borrowed" this picture from Stanford, I hope ya'll enjoy the little mousy athlete, as I did... and to the researchers at Stanford, Thank you so very much for retaining a sense of humor!  You get credit for that and the photo!  Susie... 08/28/08

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by kitty51, Jul 18, 2008 08:01AM
Well i wish you all the best giving it another go with your husband at least you know him well enough that thers no surprises,getting a job may make him feel better about himself.Good Luck SBF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by karen717, Jul 23, 2008 06:56AM
I will say a prayer for you. I love the picture as well! I do wish you the best of luck! You deserve to be happy!!!

by TrudieC, Jul 23, 2008 07:39AM
Love the picture.  I really hope that you can make it work with your husband.  If you both still have love and both want to make it work united you can succeed.  Good luck with everything!

by Jan214, Jul 23, 2008 09:16AM
What is it they say, being first isn't all it is cracked up to be, the second mouse gets the cheese.

I do wish you well in your efforts to fix your marriage. I don't know the background, but I am sure that if he is working that will help his self esteem a lot and maybe that was part of the problem. Like I said I don't know your story, but if you are both willing to put in the work it will be worth it in the end.  To often people want the other person to fix their problems, but I have always said, if one person in a marriage has a problem, the marriage has a problem.
You will definitely be in my prayers.

Good Luck
Jan

by Toomanyadvil, Jul 23, 2008 10:29AM
Prayers for you and your hubby. I wish you both the best in getting back on track and giving it another try. You know whats best for you and if you feel you can both work on it then your doing the right thing.
Rome wasnt built in a day(I know so cliche,,sorry) so just take it day by day.
Many good wishes and prayers
TMA

by SharJ, Aug 28, 2008 06:13PM
I just want you to know that I wish you the best, and hope your marriage will heal and you & your husband can work things out.  It takes a lot of work from both of you. If you still love each other then that is the first step.  May you both have the love and patience to make your marriage work. Only the both of you know what you want to do.Good Luck.

How are you feeling? I have had so much happening I have fallen behind on checking on all my friends.  

Sharj

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