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Loss

Jul 20, 2008 01:45AM - 1 comments

I get tired of dealing with loss...then again who doesn't?! It all happens at the same time though!!!!! WHY?? Maybe to distract us.
I am so upset about losing my dog. He was like Family, my best friend. I don't know how to deal with this so I keep putting it off and that's not good. I am so angry about it I can't even cry. I know it will get better I just hate this part.
what lesson do we learn from loss?? That's what I can't seem to understand....and we get so much of it!! Am I to gain something now that I have lost something? Or did I just lose something just to remember I don't have it anymore?
I just wasn't ready to lose my best buddy yet...not like this! That's life for you! Give me all I can't handle and then some more.
I hope he is in a good place now. And I hope this time will pass quickly.

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by 2horses4me, Jul 20, 2008 09:09AM
Dear Loss,     After losing my best friend (my yellow lab) I was sure that the pain would never end.  We had shared our lives together for 12 years.  It's been a year and a half and although the pain is there, I cry mostly when I remember her and all the joy she brought to my life.  I have her picture on my cell phone so I see her daily.  She's never far away.  It takes awhile if ever to get back some normalcy, but the loss is hard to explain to those who aren't connected a pet.  Even my husband didn't mourn the way I did.  Loss is a consiquence of life and I am thankful everyday that she was part of my life and I was part of hers.  Grieve for your friend, but don't let sadness consume you, your dog or any creature wouldn't want that to be a consiquence of their passing.

2horses4me

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