Goodbye

aw curleygirl ,your heart must be in so much pain ,

I am so sorry for your loss, I will pray for you tonight, was she just a little girl? your heart must be so broken.

Sunset

Selfish me - I can identify with the grief you feel.  I've cried when one of my cats or dogs passes on.  Whoever the little girl in your poem was about, she will never be really gone as long as there is someone to remember her.

Hugs ....

wolf

Yes. She was a little girl. 7. She had been sick with cancer for 2 years, and her body just gave up.
We became very close the past year, and I felt like she was my own daughter.
I will miss her so much.

I cannot even bring myself to even "imagine" how you must be feeling. I feel so much sympahy towards you, and of course to her family too. Did she have any brothers or sisters, (a bit of an odd question you may think) but if she did, you may feel solace in comforting them too.

You sound like such a wonderful and caring person, who is obviously very devastated over this poor little angel's passing.

May she rest in peace.

She was her parent's miracle baby, which makes it sting even more. Her mom and dad were trying to get pregnant for 4 years (that's how I met them, I was beginning med school and I was an assistant to a sexual disfunction therapist) before I met them. It was amazing. Her mother was supposed to be sterile, but one day she came in and announced she was pregnant. It was amazing. I've stayed friends with them ever since, and when Brenda got sick, I helped them cope. She was born a healthy baby and normal.
Brenda didn't have any sibblings, only her mom and dad.
I really can't believe she's gone.
I saw her today down in the morgue. She looked the same....but completely different. It is a hard thing to describe.
I will miss her terribly.

Hi CurleyGirl7,

So sorry to hear about the loss of your patient ....death is never easy, but when it is an innocent 7 year old, it is just plain devastating.   Please know my thoughts are with you and the family.  

It's heartwarming to know how deeply you care for your patients!!

Best wishes,
Cindy Thompson
MedHelp

Again, I cant begin to imagine how you are feeling. I have never really thought about the devastating ordeals that real life nurses and doctors have to go through. We sure, sure, sure do take so much for granted in this life, it goes by so quickly.

My thoughts and blessings are with you - and Brenda's poor parents, and everyone she has left behind her.

Thanks for all the support everyone.
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****Hug****

U know everybody has a destiny and we can't cry for what God has decided for us but only to be happy.
I know it's hard to align yourself with this hard truth but believe me, nothing happens randomly.
I'm sure your feeling with her will carry on so she won't be died x u...

I hope soon u can change your pain in joy and be happy for Brenda.

Take care.
xxx