Aug 16, 2010
Where do I even begin with the issues I have with my in-laws. OK so before I even told my hubby we were expecting his evil cousin holly badgered it out of me. I explained to her we were waiting until the 2nd trimester to tell anyone and I expected her to keep it in confidence which she agreed to and said she understood. Well this past Saturday was my first wedding anniversary. We wake up that morining to a text message saying that she actually told my hubby (jason)'s mom over a month ago and she is very angry with us for not telling. Let me start out by saying ourt pregnancy is OUR BUSINESS!!!! Not anyone elses and we absolutely have the right to tell people when we feel we are ready. On top of all of this she went on and told his whole family on his moms side leaving us with absolutely no choice but to make our round of phone calls as quickly as possible in order to atleast be able to announce the news to some people. I feel so robbed of my opportunity to be excited about this now. Especially with everyone all mad at us. We still have yet to talk to Jasons mother. We have decided since she already has known for a long time that whats the point in rushing to make the phone call now. She is up north camping anyways. It is just so utterly annoying that his family is like that. On top of all my horrible sister in law says "she wants nothing to do with me but she does want to be part of her neice/nephews life. Doesnt she realize the person she wants to be a part of is growing inside MY body!!! She will neevr be an aunt to my child in my opinion. What a horrible person. I have been under an incredible amount of stress due to this. Thank goodness my husband is so wonderfully supportive and I have a great family backing us. Sorry for all this and it may not make any sense but I just needed to vent...