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First IVF cycle failed

Jan 08, 2008 06:24AM - 6 comments

Found out yesterday that our first ivf cycle had failed. I have a follow-up with my RE tomorrow. I hope he has some answers for me: did the embies hatch? did they fail to implant? can the RE tell me exactly what went wrong? I have too many questions in my head. I was really hopeful for this one since all my sono and tests during the process were all good, even the last sono 2 days after transfer.

It took a while for the news to totally sink in. Later on, I felt depression sinking in and had a good cry.

Hubby is up for a second try...let's see what the RE tells me tomorrow...


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by CZ72, Jan 08, 2008 07:38AM
I've been to that theme park but never brave enough to get on that ride.

I am soon to be 36 and going on 13 years of marriage.  I have an 18 year old son from a previous relationship but my husband and I were never able to conceive.  It is sad to say but I gave up years ago.  I went through years of testing, pills and minor procedures.  I couldn't bring myself to keep trying and I never tried the IVF.   As another birthday rolls around, I am contemplating giving it one more shot.  I envy you for having the courage to try it.  It has been a sore subject in my marriage....my husband thinks its not fair that I gave up.  I think he doesnt fully understand what a roller coaster ride it is each time you find out it didn't work.  

If you have the means, don't give up.  You'll live the rest of your life wondering WHAT IF?

by butterflybabies, Jan 20, 2008 03:45PM
Sorry to be posting you so late but I wanted to say that Im sorry to hear that it didnt work out..Dont give up!! If you have the means keep trying..I hope this works out for you..I will keep my fingers crossed for you!!
SSBD your way...
Lily

by nai08, Jan 30, 2008 12:18PM
sorry it did work out for u this time. i have not gone through invitro but i know what your going through. we have been trying for two years with no success. good luck i will keep my fingers crossed for you.

by Lavenderaz, May 13, 2008 04:08AM
Hi...sorry to hear from you. i just did my blood test yesterday, and the result also negative. i know how is your feeling, but what is the result after consult with your RE? I still need guds to do the second time because i'm scared of feeling down again....in my case, the doc remind me earlier, it is wheater my embryos can really adapt with my womb. So, i guess, i have done what i suppose to, and the rest is GOD job...and really hope to hear good news from you!


by Juana824, May 14, 2008 11:22AM
Hello, I was tested on Monday and my blood test was also negative. My heart is broken. I am scared of trying a second time. But we have an appt with the doctor in two weeks. I was so sure that it would be a success because the problem was with my husband. They retireved 18 eggs and 8 of them fertilized. I am just waiting on God to send me my Angels! best wishes to all of you and God Bless!

by zondery, Nov 15, 2008 10:03PM
Hi, I am sorry to hear that. I absolutely can feel your pain. I got the result 3 days ago and also NEGATIVE. I was very dissapointed and down for few days but I feel little better now. I think I am up for another try soon. I know many people have to do more than once. I will see my doc in two weeks, hopefully she'll  clear the cloud. I think I did the best I could, They got 15 eggs, 9 fertilized, and only up to 3 days 4 survived with 1 grade A, 1 B, and 2 Cs. No idea what caused them to deteriorate so quickly. So they need to do transfer on day 3 before none make it to blastocyst. If anyone share the same experience and knows anything about it, I would love to know more.

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