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Thank you, friends.

Aug 28, 2008 07:29AM - 47 comments

I want to thank everyone who sent such good wishes and thoughts to me over the past few days.  I'm overwhelmed with gratitude and astonished that so many people care.

Dad died late yesterday afternoon.  As he had said once, he didn't want people there when he passed...so he waited until my sister went home to get some rest.  He died right after she left.

I'm feeling better and a bit more settled in my mind.  His struggle is over, thankfully.  

Thank you to everyone here.  I printed out the comments, and will always remember the special people who took the time to help someone they never met.



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by Ranaesheart, Aug 28, 2008 07:38AM
Am sorry for the loss of your dear father, Peek, and thankful his passing was quiet and as he wished.  Please take the time you need now and know we all care about what you are going through and wish you only comfort and the blessing of special memories ... heartfelt wishes ... Ranae

by GNicole, Aug 28, 2008 07:46AM
Peek, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope the memories of your father help to comfort you at this time. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Greta

by Whatawoman, Aug 28, 2008 07:47AM
(((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))) no words just ((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))

by pinklady42, Aug 28, 2008 07:48AM
PEEK I AM SO SORRY FOR UR LOSS I WILL BE PRAYING FOR U AND UR FAMILY. I WILL KEEP U IN MY THOUGHTS AND JUST REMEMBER THAT UR FATHER IS IN A BETTER PLACE NOW. GOD BLESS U AND UR FAMILY. TAKE CARE. LISA

by jenshim, Aug 28, 2008 07:51AM
Peek sorry for the loss of your beloved Daddy. I wish you peace and comfort at this difficult time. Reaching out to give you a great big (((((((((CYBER HUG)))))))!!

by Channelview_Mom, Aug 28, 2008 07:56AM
I am so sorry for the loss of you Dad.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.
((((((((((((((((((((((((( HUGS )))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

by deanne11, Aug 28, 2008 08:05AM
Peek - As always, You are in my thoughts.
I'm sorry for your loss and I wish you much peace during this time for you.
Many prayers for you and your sister to move forward with loving memories.
Hugs and Love to you always.

Wishing I could pull you through this difficult time as you pulled me through the many challenges and struggles I have had the past few years.  

Love and Friendship Always!

by Heather3418, Aug 28, 2008 08:26AM
Peek,

I lost my daddy to the same disease in January.  Yes sweetheart, your daddy is finally suffering no more.  What a terrible void, their passing leaves in the lives of those left behind.  I know that you wouldn't wish your daddy back on Earth for one moment, if he had to suffer....but gosh, to just be able to hold them one more time and tell them you love them.

Take your time to grieve.  Thank God we are left with our wonderful memories.  Our Daddy's are precious...

You are in my thoughts and prayers...

Big Gentle Hugs,
Heather

by AJH84, Aug 28, 2008 08:27AM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray all the good, loving memories bring you comfort, joy, strength, and peace during your time of mourning.
Sending many, many hugs your way.
God bless.

by wannabenana, Aug 28, 2008 08:28AM
I'm so glad he is no longer suffering.

Now take this time to let the healing process begin.

Tons of prayers and LOVE for you and your sister!

by wonderme, Aug 28, 2008 08:48AM
So sorry to hear that.  It is wonderful that you were able to respect his wishes and now find peace that his suffering is over.  I wish you and your family the very best...and my condolences.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

by Happy2girls, Aug 28, 2008 08:48AM
Peek, Your Daddy is finally at peace and I wish the same for you and your sister.  Sending you love and  hugs from Pennsylvania.  

by babyscience, Aug 28, 2008 08:50AM
I am so sorry, just know that he is better now, watching over you, and can now remember all of his happy memories that his body couldnt let him remember while he was here!

by spade22, Aug 28, 2008 08:54AM
Big HUGS

by pcarsey, Aug 28, 2008 09:02AM
Peek, I'm so sorry for your loss, but also glad your dad was strong enough to stick to his ultimate plan! He knew what he was doing in the midst of everything that was going on. His intuition told him that he was alone and he could pass on. Just remember the good times you had with him because lord knows when someone is going through such a turmoil disease sometimes it isn't so pleasant! You will always have him in your heart and he will always have you in his!! From one Ohioan to another.. Many Blessings to You and your Family!! ((Big Hugs from S.E. Ohio))

by swampcritter, Aug 28, 2008 09:04AM
Peek, Swampy's condolences.

by girliegrl1723, Aug 28, 2008 09:15AM
my most heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. as i read in your last journal and in this one, i too beleive your father is in a better place now. i hope all the fond memories of him bring you and your family joy as you greive. <3

by TrudieC, Aug 28, 2008 09:30AM
Peek, I am glad he did not have to suffer for long.  Grieve, celebrate his life, and remember him fondly.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Much love, Trudie

by April2, Aug 28, 2008 09:35AM
Peek, I'm so sorry about your dad. Please accept my condolences.
You know, it always amazes me that the person who is dying accepts it better than we do and can even plan their death to a certain point. My aunt planned everything right down to taking care of bills, her cat, her boys, even her funeral and what music she wanted, etc. I never saw someone at such peace. Her boys had a hard time letting go of her but she was ready. She only held on as long as she did because her kids didn't want to let go. It's always easier on our loved ones who are dying than it is on the ones left behind.
Your dad is at peace now. I pray you can feel that peace too. Prayers and blessings sent your way.
Your MH friend,
April

by peekawho, Aug 28, 2008 09:35AM
*mournfully*

Now that I'm an orphan, someone will have to adopt me.

by wannabenana, Aug 28, 2008 09:44AM
Does that mean that we have to adopt Mr. Peek, too?

by peekawho, Aug 28, 2008 09:50AM
*considers this carefully*

Only if you will agree to pay all his major medical expenses.  And you get custody on alternate weekends and summer vacations.

by TrudieC, Aug 28, 2008 09:54AM
Do we get to wax him?

by lovethebops, Aug 28, 2008 09:54AM
Soo sorry to hear about this Peek. I just got on here. I had no idea this was all going on. Hugs to you Peek. I wish I could offer you a real hug, but you are on the other side of the country. So the best I can do is send my well wishes and cyber hugs. Take care dear Peeky!

by wannabenana, Aug 28, 2008 09:56AM
Hmm.....that's asking an awful lot!

I'll have to consider it.

by have 2 kids, Aug 28, 2008 10:01AM
Peek has been adopted!   She's mine now.    We will work out the details of Mr. Peek at a later time.......

by peekawho, Aug 28, 2008 10:02AM
Trudie, his shaving is quite an ordeal.  



by pcarsey, Aug 28, 2008 10:03AM
I think we adopt Peek... and auction Mr. Peek off... hehe

by peekawho, Aug 28, 2008 10:05AM
Unfortunately, we are a package deal.  He needs his Mommy.

by pcarsey, Aug 28, 2008 10:11AM
hehe.. well then ..... but the doggies must come too.. *has 51 acres for dogs to run wild and free*


by Quinns momma, Aug 28, 2008 10:14AM
Peek,
I am so sorry my thoughts go out to you and your family at this trying time.

by becca_3456, Aug 28, 2008 10:42AM
I am very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. May God give you and your family peace. God bless.

by kellym, Aug 28, 2008 11:28AM
Peek,
I'm going to say you are probably the favorite in all the forums. Your advice, humor & laughter flutter through these posts brightening anyones day (and evening). I hope you find comfort in all the posts because you do mean so much to so many. I'm sorry about your dad and the emptiness you may feel but your cyberfriends are here!
Keep your chin up and have a toast on your dad and his happiness now that he's with your mom!
Kellie



by mslkpage, Aug 28, 2008 12:38PM
Man, the replies on your last journal have me all misty-eyed (vsentz, you're goofy and sentimental all at the same time!). I love you, Peek! I'm working late today but call me on my cell if you need to talk. I wish I was there to give your skinny *** a big, squishy hug.

by mslkpage