Dec 16, 2010
I can understand that some people have never had to deal with a miscarriage or the sense of loss it leaves a woman with but do they really have to be so ignorant and hurtful?
I just had the most horrible experience with someone who I considered a close friend, she actually asked me "How can you grieve for something you never even had?" Now maybe its just me but that has to be one of the horrible things anyone has said to me.
Although I never got to bring my baby to full term, I did have him/her for over four months and i think that counts for something!!! I know this girl has never been pregnant but surely as a woman she should know better than to dismiss a pregnancy like that.