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Right now I hate what my body is doing

Oct 12, 2008 12:00AM - 2 comments

I can't stand what my body is doing to my life, my marriage.  My husband is so emotionally & physically drained. I don't know what to do for him. He works full time, comes home and now has to do the household chores and take care of me because I broke my dam foot and cannot put any weight on it for 6 to 8 weeks. I hate Fibro.  I am just depressed, not feeling sorry for myself.

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by BJ_1, Oct 13, 2008 05:55AM
Don't put so much blame on yourself.  It's not your fault that you have Fibro and broke your foot.  I'm sure your husband understands and will do as much as he can to take care of things.  Sometimes household chores aren't the most important things in the world and it's ok to let them slide a bit.  Just let your husband know you love him and I'm sure you are able to provide him with hugs and kisses still.  They go a long way.  I know you're depressed but life has it's ups and downs and try to remember some of the ups right now.  Feel free to contact me and let me know how your progressing.  Sometimes it's nice to have a friend to talk to.  BJ_1

by Heather3418, Oct 13, 2008 06:55AM
Shar,

We never know when we get married, what ailments will affects us or our spouses.  Remember that is part of our wedding vows, for better, for worse, in sickness and health.  You cannot help that you have become sick.  It's part of the mess that has been thrown at you.  Your husband may feel worn out and depressed over all that has happened to you, but girlfriend, I would make a safe bet, that this man loves you with all his heart.

Dealing with all that you do and now dealing with a broken foot, must make you feel helpless, when you would rather get up and do it all yourself.  Please don't be so hard on yourself.  The broken foot is adding to your misery.  That will heal.  In the meantime, thank your husband every chance you get, for all of his help.  Even tell him that you understand how hard this must all be on him.  Reassure him that if he were the one that was sick, you would be there for him in every way that you can.  Then maybe say, that you hope to God nothing like this ever happens to him.  But as we all know, we never know what life is going to through at us.  We just do the best we can with what we are faced with.

God Bless you sweetheart and I'll be praying that things go YOUR way for a change and you get a break from all this sickness and pain, so you can enjoy your life.  You have alot to offer, as is evidenced by your wonderful and supportive posts to so many others.  You are important and you are deserving of praise.

Get well soon dearheart.  Dad bern that foot anyway....LOL

All the Best,
Heather
Keep the chin up...people that care for you are praying for some peace and quiet in your life, hoping the days to come, will be easier...

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