Jan 07, 2009
This was a random site i came across in my attempts to fix a horrible problem that has been putting a cloud over my sex life with my partner. -_-
I have always had, well larger "lips" and thought that might have been a slight part of the cause lately, not being able to get wet...sometimes at all. No matter how much i am enjoying myself. It makes us both feel terrible, and kills the mood. He is more attractive than ever, our sex life is average and pretty normal. Not only that but on another note all together...i would like some advice over the next while on orgasams.
I feel it all ties in together a little.
I only recently in the last year have realized that i can orgasam by just "playing" with my clit, masturbating. It was sorta sudden and by accident the first time (i know how the hell can you do that by accident right). Took a while for me to get the hang of it and comfortable with myself. Now i can in a matter of minutes, given the right thoughts. I would really like to be able to do this with him! ...He has never been able to get me too, other than through intercourse. He feels like i am not enjoying myself; not only because of this but the wetness problem as well.
I sometimes feel a little pressured about it, it feels nearly impossible to do though. I cannot seem to get mysefl in the right state of mind and get horribly frustrated.
How can i get myself to *** for him that way?
Why can i not get/stay wet?!
So... i really need some help here. Feel free to ask details if it will help me get some answers ha ha ha.