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Aug 18, 2012 - 1 comments
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I have been so jealous lately because all of my friends are getting pregnant and half of them don't even want to be, but I can't seem to get pregnant. Sometimes I just cry myself to sleep. I think what's wing with meet? Will I not be a good mother? Do I not deserve to be a mother? I have a beautiful goddaughter who I love entirely more than anything in this world, even more than my fiance ;-) but its like when I look at her, I feel disappointed because I know if I love this baby this much and she's not even mine, I know the love I will have for my own.... It will be unexplainable. I already have special names picked out and at night I like to look at baby things because its just something that makes me happy. I already know which furniture I want for a boy and girl. Its just very stressful and painful because I have all this love to give and I can't seem to give it. Since I'm 18 not too many doctors want to give me information about fertility, but I feel that I have a right just like the next. I just don't know what to do. I'm tired of crying and stressing about it. My fiance gets sad because he can't really comfort to a point where I would immediately be happy. And he feels bad because he's not getting the job done. Its so heartbreaking when I take that pregnancy test and its negative then my period came the next day. I just don't know how top get over it and I'm truly worried that I may be a woman that can't have children. I've never gotten pregnant before. I mean I would love to adopt but they put you through so much and any little flaw you have they deny your happiness. I might sound crazy, but these are the feelings I have in my heart. And they won't go away until I see that pregnancy test and first ultrasound.... Only time and hopefully a doctor will tell right?...

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by abejita07, Aug 23, 2013
I think you shouldnt worry. Wanting to get pregnant is like wanting to find the right person. That is not happening right away, the moment you stop trying as hard as you are the moment you will be pregnant.... Relax buy the ovulation kit if you don't know which day you start your fertil days and that day try do in it. Don't try every day. Your partner and you have more chances if you wait for your fertile days try not to have sex everytime. Wait for those days, the more sperm is save the better it is...... That day relax get steamy enjoy the sex and after he finishes just put your legs up high in the wall. Try not to go to the bathroom (peeing kills sperm) good luck honey....

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