Nov 21, 2012
my MIL is VERY pushy . she doesnt understand the meaning of no. well the hospital im delivering at doesnt have a limit on the number of people that can be in the birthing room and shes DETERMINDED to be in there. My df has told her that ive said no but she keeps acting as if what i said doesnt matter . after my baby shower as i was leaving the last thing she said was 'ill see you in the birthing room' and that upset me because this was after i had already saod no. me and his mother have never had a good relationship, nor does she even try . she makes me very uncomfertable and i dont want to be put in the position while im giving birth to my son. from the begining she has been very unsupportive of the baby and pushed me to get an abortion . i dont feel like she has the right to witness such a blessing when she was so against it in the first place. and what makes it worse to me is that its not only his mom that already claimed her place but numerous people in his family. its sad that im literally dreading the day that i have my baby because i know im going to have to deal with her. i just wish she would accept no as an answer and let me enjoy the big day .