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Memory and Hope!

Feb 09, 2009 06:48PM - 39 comments

I am making a memorial and hope garden.  If you have a special flower/plant/shrub that you think would bring beautiful color or special meaning into my garden, I want to know about it!  If you have lost a loved one to OVCA, let me know what their favorite flower is and I will add the person's name and special plant to the garden.  My HOPE garden will be comprised mostly of plants and flowers that are beneficial for birds and butterflies.  I have started cleaning out areas to plant and have purchased some rose bushes and ordered flowers online.  (I live in planting zone 7)

Let me have your ideas and suggestions.....................

Have a Blessed day!

Heidi

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by marie3B, Feb 09, 2009 07:51PM
Heidi,  This is such a beautiful thing you are doing.  My mother was taken from us by this monster  in 1987.  Her name was Sherrill Marie and she was only 51.  She planted the basic petunias and pansies every year, but those were not her favorite.  She once had a rose bush called the Peace rose.  It was sort of a peachish color.  That was by far her favorite.  Love, Marie

by justscore, Feb 10, 2009 08:59AM
I found peace roses online and will add them in memory of your mom.  I had never heard of that type of rose.  I can't believe how many different varieties there are, thank goodness for google :)  

Heidi

by marie3B, Feb 10, 2009 11:43AM
Thank you so much.  I know she would have loved this.  Marie

by butterflytc, Feb 10, 2009 01:26PM
Heidi,
   What a lovely idea, Don't know very much about flowers myself, but love gladiolas (sp). Just the fact that you are doing a garden fit for butterflies makes me happy!

Good luck with it, and I hope you post pics later.

butterflytc

by bohan54, Feb 10, 2009 06:43PM
Sheesh, have way to many favorites.  Butterflies love purple coneflower, an easy perennial (sp?)

by doicat, Feb 10, 2009 10:53PM
Heidi:

You being in Texas,,,to place a Tx. Mountain Laurel Bush...it will provide some shade for the more northern/tender plants that you may want to plant, is evergreen and has those wonderful purple fragrant grape that blooms in early spring.

by justscore, Feb 11, 2009 10:18PM
I will add coneflowers, I have always wanted to try those!  

I am not familiar w/the TX Mountain Laurel Bush..............google here I come!

Heidi

by justscore, Feb 25, 2009 07:48PM
It was another beautiful Texas day..........
I planted roses today and shopped around for some other flowers to add.  I need more suggestions.  I also bought an angel to watch over the garden.  I will add more angels as I find unique ones.  I will start on name plates soon so let me know what names to add.

Hope everyone is having a good day.............

Heidi

by justscore, Feb 27, 2009 02:25PM
Any more ideas?  I am making a trip to a nursery tomorrow........

Heidi

by Teresa222, Feb 27, 2009 04:00PM
My Fraternal Grandmother passed away at the age of 57 from Ovarian Cancer.  She was born and raised around Atlanta, GA.  Daffodils are very popular there. We lost her when I was very little so I don't remember much about her. Her name was Hattie Isabelle. (last name omitted)
Teresa222

by justscore, Mar 22, 2009 08:42PM
I have planted some new things and have several birds nesting on our property.  I even have a nest in my son's old shoe w/5 eggs in it.  My columbines, salvia, Texas sage and blue scabiosa are all blooming.  A new season...............bringing new life and HOPE!  I will post some pictures soon.  

Peace!
Heidi

by lvfrogs, Mar 23, 2009 07:49AM
What a beautiful idea that you have going. I love it and how very sweet of you. Would you consider planting some Hibiscus bush or bushes? They should do really well in Texas and are a very beautiful flower, especially the double ruffle ones. God will bless you!
Colleen

by butterflytc, Mar 23, 2009 04:37PM
Cannot wait to see the pics of the Garden Heidi, it sounds lovely. Excited to see the coneflower? never heard of them, and curious to see what they look like.
Talk when I return.
Hugs
butterflyTc

by JC145, Mar 23, 2009 07:49PM
Just wanted to say how I enjoy hearing about your garden.  It takes me to a better place mentally.

For some reason the few flower beds I had all look like **** and I don't have the energy to fix them.  Some big old azeleas have finally said they are done .. a new magnoia tree (2 yrs) never really took and we had it removed and now there's another empty space.  If you feel like coming to Dunedin, you can have full range on redoing my flower beds :-)

Judy

by justscore, Mar 27, 2009 11:50AM
I have added pictures to my profile page of the flowers that have started blooming.  I saw my first hummingbird of the Spring today but couldn't snap a picture.  I also have 5 Eastern Bluebirds that hatched yesterday.  The Wren eggs have not hatched and a pair of Northern Cardinals are nesting but have no eggs yet.  My favorite picture is of the new angel that is looking over one of the gardens.  I will update pictures as the plants start blooming and the baby birds hatch.  

Peace......
Heidi

by justscore, Mar 29, 2009 07:25PM
Yesterday was my 40th b-day and my gift from my family was a trip to the new nursery opening in town.  I got some great stuff to add.  I got a lime tree, a hibiscus tree, ice queen hibiscus, red and purple verbena, carpet phlox, star vine, pink scabiosa and a variety of hosta.  Tomorrow I will plant and work on name plates.  Please check out my photos.  I will update tomorrow, the baby wrens hatched today.  This project is really coming together!   Peace!

Heidi

by justscore, Apr 04, 2009 12:49PM
The baby wrens are 1 week old tomorrow.  Today I received meal worms in the mail to feed the Bluebirds and Wrens (my hubby thinks I'm nuts... lol ).  My new hibiscus is blooming.  Check out the new pictures.  My favorite is still the garden angel.  I bought a new one w/a gazing ball too.  I have not worked on the name plates yet.  I am thinking of using pieces of tree bark to write the names on.  Any ideas?

Peace!
Heidi

by justscore, Apr 13, 2009 08:04PM
I posted more pics tonight.  The baby Wrens fledged on Saturday.  I got to watch the whole thing and even helped 2 of them out of the garage.  They had a hard time getting out of the garage, they would flutter by the door and get so tired.  It took the last 2, 9 hours to finally get out.  The parents kept coming in and feeding them, trying to coax them out.  The baby Bluebirds have also fledged and the female is working on nest #2.  The hummingbirds have arrived and the Pine Siskins are still here, they are usually gone by April.  
I planted more stuff and the roses are blooming.  I thought of Leslee when I saw the blooms opening. I planted pink, violet, and red verbena, impatients, hosta, and more Hibiscus.  I still haven't worked on the name plates.  I was going to do them today but I had a root canal and was lazy. :)
Hope everyone enjoyed Easter and the HOPE it brings.  

Peace!
Heidi

by marie3B, Apr 13, 2009 09:11PM
Heidi,  Every time I think of what you are doing I am so very touched.  I am getting an angel for my yard too.  It will represent you, our angel on earth.  Marie

by justscore, Apr 20, 2009 09:37AM
All the flowers that everyone has listed for Jan, I will add to the garden by the angel that is for her.

Heidi

by ireneo, Apr 20, 2009 10:23AM
I was just over at Vallieanne's, looking at all the flowers. I can't seem to stop crying. They are all so beautiful. I hope you have a lot of space by that angel. Jan may be small but she lived life large. What an amazing woman she is. I want to be like her when I grow up. I know, I'm older than dirt but I still need to grow up and she's a fantastic example to us all.

by Sandymac, Apr 20, 2009 11:08AM
what a wonderful idea.. Can Gardenias grow there in Texas? I would imagine they would.. but, if not that, why not the Lantana. They grow practically wild here in Florida and attract butterflies by the hundreds . They're very hardy as well ! Very pretty as well..

by justscore, Apr 20, 2009 02:30PM
Ireneo, I know what you mean, what an amazing woman!  I have almost 2 acres so I have plenty of room for lots of beautiful flowers and angels.

Sandy, I haven't had much luck w/gardenias.  Our soil isn't acidic enough.  I have 3 varieties of Lantana.  I have lots of yellow, red and pink lemonade.  I LOVE lantana and the butterflies it brings.  I have milkweed and it already has butterfly eggs on it.  Did you send back my painted buntings yet? LOL.

PEACE!
Heidi

by fungirl1011, Apr 20, 2009 06:41PM
Heidi, I think this is the most wonderful idea!!  It is going to be so special to many people.  My all time favorite flower is the blue rose.  When I got married the first time and moved to California, my mom planted one of these rose bushes in her garden.  Thye are so beautiful.  Another favorite type of flower of mine is tulips.  They have such beautiful colors.  Anywhoo, just wanted to give you my suggestion.  I think this is going to be so beautiful.  BTW, HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!!!

Prayers and Hugs,
Kasie

by justscore, Apr 23, 2009 07:06PM
Sadly, today I added Jan's name to the memory garden.  There is a picture on my profile page.  Goodbye friend..........

Heidi

by Sandymac, Apr 23, 2009 07:57PM
Heidi,
   I bet if you looked out your window , you'd see the painted buntings arriving any day now.. They left here a few days ago. Now, the funny thing is that our Indigo Buntings are still here.. still packing I guess. They arrived later than the painted ones.LOL.. Do the buntings stay in Tx. during the summer? Seems it gets as hot there as here.. I don't see any at all in NC so I was wondering where they go.. I could Google I guess...
    Oh.. after reading the above posts...looks like I missed your birthday ?? Well, Happy Belated Birthday !!
    Your project is just fantastic !! Will you be adding Donna Marshall ?(Msjazz) She would just love it !! And, all the birds it will attract.. Sounds just beautiful...

Love,
Sandy

by justscore, Apr 23, 2009 08:21PM
Sandy.......
The buntings leave here during the winter but I don't know why.  I haven't seen any Indigos in my yard, yet.  I will let you know if/when the painted buntings return.  I have a second batch of Eastern Bluebird eggs already.  The momma bird used the same birdhouse after I cleaned out her first nest.  She is a busy girl!  

If you look at my pictures, you will see a beautiful angel hanging on my tree overlooking the memory garden, she is for Donna.  It was Donna's pictures that inspired the Memory/Hope Garden.  I hope and pray that I won't have to add any more names to the memory garden.  I have river rocks that I paint names on.   I wanted something teal but I couldn't find a teal colored flower so I bought a teal colored gazing ball.

Hope you are well!!!!

Heidi


by Sandymac, Apr 23, 2009 10:25PM
Heidi,
   After I posted, I saw the beautiful "stones" .. How pretty..As beautiful as your garden is, I also hope you won't have the need to post any more names.!.. I'm still thinking of a teal flower, but I can't think of one at all .... I love those gazing balls, they used to be so popular... almost everyone had one along with bird baths.. Funny how things come back..

    Take care and keep in touch..

Sandy

by justscore, May 07, 2009 05:58PM
When I got home today, I found a 6ft snake skin by the Hope garden...........yikes!  

Most all of the flowers are blooming now and there is another bird nesting in the birdhouse above the Memory garden.  

I will update pictures later.  

Peace!
Heidi

by dawnlyn, May 07, 2009 07:36PM
Heidi,

This sounds like a beautiful garden.....minus the snake...Yuk........I cannot do snakes.....Can't wait to see the pictures.....This is such a lovely idea...Thank you....Dawnlyn

by justscore, May 17, 2009 08:10PM
More plantings today...
I added some turks cap, 2 more hibiscus, silver leaf salvia and more tropical milk weed for the monarchs.  After I finished planting, I went into the house and there was a 4 foot Rat snake in my KITCHEN!!!!!  I went out to tell my hubby and when I came back in, I couldn't find it.................YIKES!!!!  I finally found it, caught it and then released it at the lake.  
On a better note, my baby Bluebirds are hatching.  Only one so far.  I will check tomorrow and post some pictures.

Hope all is well!

PEACE!
Heidi

by justscore, Jun 02, 2009 09:30AM
The garden is looking great!  I will take more pictures this week.  I have added a Cross for a friend of ours that died last week.  She was only 19 and was in pain all of her short life.  She suffered from Cystic Fibrosis and had a double lung transplant when she was 13.  So much pain and sickness for such a beautiful girl.  The Memory and HOPE garden is about remembering the ones we have lost and "planting" seeds of HOPE for a cure.......... a cure for the horrible diseases that rob us of our friends and family.

PEACE!
Heidi

by justscore, Jun 23, 2009 06:26PM
I have added some new pictures of the gardens, take a look.  I have added some coneflowers, a water Hyacinth, moss roses, wave petunias, mini petunias, some more Hibiscus, blue moons (a shade flower I have fallen in love with) dragon begonias, and firecrackers.  
The weather is getting super HOT here now, we are almost at 100 today.  I have lots of baby birds and unfortunately lots of snakes too. The snakes have snacked on 3 of my fish.  The female Eastern Bluebird has laid another 5 eggs. The other day we had some bad storms and we saw a male Peacock roaming around.  I don't know where he came from but he was amazing!  I took some pics on my cell phone, I wish I had my camera that day.  These gardens have brought me such joy and I hope they do the same for others.  

Peace!
Heidi


by justscore, Jul 04, 2009 02:15PM
Sadly, another name was added to the memory garden today.  Peace be with you Mary (Raven Lady)

Heidi

by SimplyStar, Jul 05, 2009 02:46AM
Heidi   because of the flood we had last year the building where Les worked was condemned, we have decided to do the garden for Les and many other in the city  at the new facility when it is completed,  her co workers and I are coming along fine with the plans and it just keeps getting better and better.  I have told and showed your pictures to the planners, the county officials really like your rocks with the names, they have already slotted that idea in, hope you don't mind?  Because of the Iowa winters we are not able to plant for year round beauty like yours,  we do have in mind using evergreen bushes to make it look good in winter.  I have a daughter placque  to be placed on the main gate, lots of her co workers are working on the flag stones,  Money for 3 picnic tables  and the fire pit has already been donated.  the chemo lab doctors and nurses  want to do the gate,  both hospitals are planning on doing a lot of the yearly planting , the green houses in town want to donate  all the rose bushes,  a credit union is setting up a trust fund, there is so much more, more than I could ever have realized,  so far we have the names of 37 local women to be in this memory garden.  Your garden is so beautiful, I go and look at the pictures often.  Marty

by justscore, Jul 15, 2009 04:46PM
Oh Marty, I just saw your post.......what a beautiful post!  You can use any idea you want.  It sounds like Leslee's garden will be AMAZING!!!!  She must have been one special lady, I wish I could have known her!  I would love to send an angel for her garden.  Can you give me an address?  Evergreen bushes will be awesome for the birds in the area too.  If I can help in any way, let me know.  

Peace!
Heidi




by justscore, Sep 17, 2009 09:47PM
Thought I would update y'all on the gardens.......
Everything is in full bloomm again, we have had so much rain the last week and now everything is so green and the flowers are awesome.  I have 6 Monarch Butterfly cacoons that should open around the 20th.  These Monarchs are the ones that will fly to Mexico for the Winter.  I am very excited and hope all goes well with them.  I videod one of the caterpillars changing  - it happened so fast and was amazing.  I have lots of hummingbirds that should be leaving in the next couple of weeks.  Today while I was working at the soccer shop, a hummer hit the window.  He survived the collision and I have him here with me and am trying to get him back on his feet.  Thanks to Irene and her expertise, I have him set up and am feeding him every 30 minutes or so.  I am hoping to get him some professional help tomorrow if he survives the night.  One of my sons named him HOPE.  :)  
I think about you ladies daily and pray for your healing and peace........

Heidi

by butterflytc, Sep 17, 2009 11:30PM
I like that HOPE, how perfect of a name. Your pics are truly fantastic, how peaceful to have such a nice place to remember folks, now the snakes? ummm me no like!

butterflytc

by justscore, Sep 22, 2009 08:04AM
One of my Monarchs "hatched" on Saturday, one on Sunday and 2 this morning.  The one on Sunday had problems with it's wings.  For some reason the wings did not open all the way and it could not fly.  The 2 this morning I got to watch and took a couple of pictures and posted them.  After their wings dry, I will release them onto the lantana bush so they can get strength to begin their journey to Mexico.  This is the first time I have "raised" Monarchs.  If you get the opportunity, it is truly fascinating!  Buy some tropical milkweed and Monarchs will flock to it!!!!  They are beautiful and bring new aspects of hope........

Heidi

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