I have gotten through about 1/2 of the 123 magic. Seems pretty good, almost ready to start using the strategy. Tonight my dad pissed me off so bad. He was totally doing the opposite of what I am trying to do with my son. Used angry sarcasm and then did it himself. I hope everyone who comes to this house often will be with me on this program, but kind of hopeless. But the main idea is no talking, no emotion, just count. No more aruguing, begging, nagging, ect. A little hopeful it will work.