Feel alone most of the time

You know what, if he threatens to do a divorce as you should leave him if he says that to you he doesn't love you. So i thing you should leave him. Then you can be by your self and you can make lots of new friends. And your life shouldn't be waisted by someone who doesn't wanna be with you or says stuff like that...c'mon now thats just mean..us women have to be brave and fight for what we want in "our" lives..not the men. So i say let him file a divorce then you can be free to do what you want when you want to :)

SICK_OF_PAIN

Hon, you are capable of makin friends.And no one is alone long if they dont want to be! It truly sux you have to listen to degrading comments, and coming from someone that is supposed to love and cherish you makes it even worse! Next time he tells ya you will be "absolutely alone" , ask him if he thinks you are incapable of finding someone to love you like you deserve. he will probably say yes, but he will be wrong. as long as you love yourself and respect yourself , others will see that n naturally want to be around you. please cheer up, and quit letting an immature and foolish person disrespect you!!! much luv.....

Well.. eaiser said than done ya must think about the kids if you know what I mean

Brandy, sorry but your husband doesn't sound very nice. Have you considered professional help?--So maybe you could get the confidence to escape this dependency you have on him? Do you have any hobbies or interests that could get you out of the house to make your own friends? Maybe you could take a class in something of interest to you? I think it would be good for you to meet other ppl w/similar interests. You are your own person & shouldn't be defined by him....empower yourself so that next time he threatens divorce you can take him up on it!

Hello im bro.bold now everyone here is entitled to there own oppinion.But comming from a biblical standpoint i have a friend that is going through the same thing. And he is a mighty man of GOD the devil is using the one that is close to him to discouarage him. And just like ur situation divorce came up, but he also knows that GOD does not praise divorce. We prayed together over his situation and the next day he said thanks bro i needed that! So what im trying to say is it is not ur husband that is bad acting it is the spirit that is in him. NOW GOD does allow seperation 4 awhile and if it was meant to be and if you have done in all ur power to work it out and he does not act right ask GOD what to do next i have been in ur situation b4 and i have a lil daughter and i used to think well maybe we should stick together becouse our kid, but know i said we should stay married becouse i love her and that it takes 2 to tangle i had take a look at myself too! GOD bless you and ur family!!