Im soo very hurt right now....

im sorry to hear the bad news, but dont think you not good enough for anyone. you are a very beautiful girl.
men can be very cruel and ugly sometimes. my bf started smoking weed and i hate it and dont talk to ppl that do it. he said he was gonna do weither i liked it or not and he wasnt gonna stop. i understand that he might use weed to help with problems so whatever i still think its a waist of time and stupid. now that im trying to accept it he's actually cut it down. what im trying to say is dont let him looking at other girls bother you. would you rather him look at them or **** them?
once he see like aww man it doesnt bother her no more he's gonna relaize whats the point.
and whne he does it when ya'll are together say something lesbienish then he'll find it nasty then he'll stop lol i did that to my bf and he was like thats gross and he doesnt look at girls that much. i mean im not the sexiest girl ever but he still puts his **** in me so im doing something good.
im sure your boyfriend really loves you and only want to be with you but just put your foot down. let him no how you feel.

You are VERY beautiful! Don't ever let a man make you feel such a way. I've learned my lesson with that. I would get very upset when he would look at other girls also. I felt like, I'm just someone to come home to and if he needed sex, it would be there.. But, when I let him know how it felt he didn't seem to care... And, I really hate looking at other guys while were out, but I wanted to show him what was being felt... So I started to stare and get flirty. I'd dress up a lot more nicer and then when he realized I was looking around, he got insecure and stopped all together.
I hated I had to do it that way but I had to what was needed to he would understand.

As for celebs and ppl like that, I really do not mind at all.. Maybe b/c he can't actually see them in person.. Who knows?

But, I think the ttc wait is best. Relationships go through rough times...A baby would only add stress at this point as your body becomes different during and after pregnancy. I hope you get things worked out =]]

honestly all men check out other girls. it's just in their nature to do so. it really doesn't mean anything. and i'm sure that when a good looking guy walks by, you would automatically just check him out and sometimes without even noticing that you're doing it. and even if you think that he's hot, that random guy doesn't mean anything to you and vice versa. i'm sure your bf doesn't do it to hurt you, it's just a natural act. you really shouldn't let that bother you. think about all those guys out there that can't stay faithful to their girlfriend or their wife. i know so many guys that go to ***** houses behind their girlfriends back. at least your man wants to spend his life with you and start a family. he's commited to you and it takes a lot for a guy to commit. seriously, stop thinking that you're not good enough for him because if you really think about it, YOU ARE! why else would he stick by you if he thought that you're not good enough for him. and if you keep thinking that you're really going to lose more self esteem. there's no point in having these thoughts. just think about all the good factors of your relationship instead of the bad.  

i am sooo sorry you are going through this. it really breaks my heart to know that this guy will have sex with you but when he's out and about he's checkin out other women. this is totally uncalled for and for him to actually admit this to your face. if he knows it bothers you and this guy loves you i think he would stop. it is in a man's nature to check out a "hottie." however, i think he could have kept that bit of info to himself. telling a woman something like that brings out her insecurities. i don't know what course of action you plan to take but just remember this, "No man is worth your tears. And the one that is will never make you cry."

I'm sorry you are going through this it's not easy.. I have trust issues and believe me its made it harder on our relationship SINCE we had a baby but those issues only began late in the pregnancy...I still constantly accuse him of cheating and I don't know why...Something is telling me in the back of my mind that he already has but yet I don't think so.. Yeah the joys of a relationship..it's difficult I know and I think it takes a great person to admit to take a break from ttc to work on a relationship because it will only get worse..hormones fly all over the place while pregnant and for a bit after.. good luck girl!

WELL MY PERSONAL OPINION IS A LITTLE DIFFERENT THEN MOST WOMEN AND I HAVE EXTREAMLY LOW LOW LOW SELF ESTEEM ISSUES AND WE USE TO FIGHT ABOUT THIS SAME THING I HAVE CAUGHT HIM AT IKEA FOR EXAMPLE SINCE IT'S THE MOST RECENT TIME CHECKING OUT A GIRL WELL I JUST SHOUT UP RIGHT THERE LOAUD AND CLEAR OHHH SOOOO U THINK SHE'S HOT WELL I THINK THAT GUY OVER THERE LOOKS PRITTY DAME GOOD MYSELF HE DIDN'T LIKE THIS TO MUCH SO I MADE A RULE DON'T DISRESPECT ME BY LOOKING AT OTHER GIRLS WHEN I'M AROUND AND I WONT DISRESPECT U PLAIN AND SIMPLE DOWN TO THE NITTY GRITTY REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY LADIES IT DOES WONDERS AND WE SAY WE WANT TO KNOW WE TRUELY DON'T WANT TO KNOW AT ALL WHO THEY THINK IS ATRACTIVE NOT UNLESS WERE HAVING A GOOD DAY AND FEEL GORGEUSE BUT EVERYONE LOOKS AND IF THEY SAY THEY DON'T THERE LYING U R VERY PRITTY AND I'M SURE HE THINK'S U R TO AND I LOOK IT DOESN'T MAKE ME LOVE HIM LESS OR NOT WANT TO BE WITH HIM IT'S HUMAN NATURE TO LOOK AT SOMETHING U LIKE FOR INSTANCE I SEE A WOMAN WITH A LV PURSE OHH I'M LOOKING B/C I LOVE PURSES UR FINE DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL IT TOOK ME AWHILE TO RELISE THIS IT DOESN'T MAKE ME ANY LESS AND AS LONG AS I DON'T KNOW I DON'T MIND NOW IF HE WAS SCREWING AROUND THAT'S A ALL NEW BALL GAME

ALL men look sweetie.  My 86 year old grandpa used to comment on my 23 year old friends.  ANd my grandma would sit there and agree!!!!!!  It really IS human nature.  

Totally human for people to notice other people.  I'll bet he notices really fat people too.  Don't sweat it - I would fly to oregon from RI just to get a better look at ya!!

---your anytime man.

sounds like your making a good choice... wait and see before having a baby.... would even be better if he commits to marriage before having a baby...

oh goodness, first of all, dont you know that there is sooo much more to you than your outer beauty? the way you think, the person you are, all the good in you, LOVE YOURSELF! this world is full of beautiful people, tv, fashion, and each day it gets harder to keep up with the rat race, everyone wants to be perfect. well, that doesnt exist. the best you can do is reach within you and say, this is me, i am a good person. everyone above who said looking is natural, it is! very, especially for men, they are very visual. lol its why they dont listen too well. so dont take that as you arent good enough, because honey no matter what you do, someone else out there is going to have something different that you dont have. and you can say the same for yourself, you have something nobody else has, which is why he is with YOU. and why he doesnt feel ashamed or like he has to hide the fact that he looks, because he is secure in how he feels for you, and doesnt see why you are not. anyway girl lol im sorry you feel so bad about the situation, but at the end of the day, your biggest problem is how you feel about yourself. you should begin to take notice of all the beautiful things about you EVERY DAY! i know by just talking to you a few times that you have many! because they are not going to talk about the shape of your nose at your funeral, they will say what a great wife, mother, friend... in the end its our relationships with people in our life and how we effected the world that matters. sorry so long, people and their self esteem are one of my many many many passions =0)