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my heart in breaking

Apr 18, 2008 11:04AM - 2 comments

So, I told my parents and his mom and sister. I made each one promise to not say anything to anyone until I'm at least 6 or 7 wks. Well, my MIL wanted to tell her BF. So she did. My mom basically told our whole church. They asked her if I was and instead of saying ' I don't know' or 'ask her' or 'I haven't seen any proof yet'. she tells them that she never said anything. to me, if I was to ask someone a question and they gave me that answer then I would automatically assume the answer to be yes. Wouldn't you all?? So now my DH and I are not going to that church until mothers day, if we even go then. My mom hurt me really bad. I asked her to do one thing, Just ONE, and she blows it. It makes me wonder how many other secrets she's told of mine. So right now, I'm extremely peed off. I don't want to even talk to her right now. You are supposed to be able to tell your mom anything and know she will keep it a secret if you ask her too. You are NOT supposed to worry about whether or not she is telling everybody everything about you.

So does anyone have any advice?? Thanks
xoxo
Kandy

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by nevaeh222, Apr 18, 2008 11:12AM
I'm not sure if your mom did anything wrong...she didn't say yes and she didn't say no?
Honestly, coming from a 22 year old who lost her mom a couple of years ago from cancer..I'd treasure your mother every day and be lucky she's there for you.


by agamommy, Apr 30, 2008 10:49AM
A promise ..is a promise.. they should of both kept their promises.... I totally understand... I can not tell anyone in my family ANYTHING!!! unless I want everyone to know.... On the other side though.... nevaeh is right..... she is your mother and you should treasure her..... I would just be more careful in the future on sharing news that you don't wont everyone to know just yet... try not to be mad at your mom to much..... she may not be able to keep a secret..... but she does love you very much....

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