The Target brand of Dreft is also great. We started out using Dreft, but eventually switched to the Target brand for the better price. I keep wanting to try the ALL for babies, but a lot of places don't carry it, and they don't have a large container (with the spout), which is what we like.
So which name was he wanting out of the two? You never specified who wanted which name... :-)
I also read that older maternal age could have something to do with it...or increase the chances.
I read that these are not genetic, so I don't necessarily think your second child would automatically be at high risk of having one. I also have a friend who had a son first (without the hemangioma), then later had a girl WITH one. I think it is just a "luck of the draw" sort of situation. Some children may have them, so may not.
I actually use Huggies Supremes, not the plain Huggies, but that wasn't listed so I just clicked Huggies. I tried the B J's Warehouse brand recently and absolutely hated them!
I also hated Luvs...they're way too thin imo.
As for wipes, Wal-Mart brand (Parent's Choice) are similar to Huggies wipes...which are nice and thick! Can't go wrong there.