If I had to choose I would not go ahead with the D & C either. I would let them happen naturally, like I did. This way, you will never wonder...
Sorry for the difficult choice you are having right now. I hope it works out for the best.
I have the copper one, can't imagine it either. Maybe she just means the doc did it. Regardless, I can't imagine that either, considering she may or may not have been pregnant. Well, if she wasn't, she will be soon!
Rosie-nobody here can tell you if you are pregnant. You need bloodwork or another test.