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vonCatt is
finally feeling better after a weekend off
About Me:
Female, 48, member since Sep 2007
Just getting to know myself is going to take so much time.  I am finally at a time in my life where there's nobody else to take care of anymore.  It is time to fulfill my dreams.... [More]
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What do I do?
Oct 11, 2007 05:43AM in the Divorce & Breakups Community
You are in the relationship alone anyway. This man is not committed to you or his family. Ask yourself some tough questions. What am I getting out of the relationship? Is the price I am paying emotionally worth what he gives me financially? Wouldn't he have to pay child support if you left? You are may be wasting your time with someone who is too "busy"...
Moving on after 28 years
Oct 10, 2007 05:50AM in the Divorce & Breakups Community
I understand completely what you are going thru. My first marriage lasted almost 15 years & my second 10. I have been married most of my adult life and spent almost 30 years taking care of others. I always felt like something was missing. I now know that the missing ingredient was that I was expecting someone else to love me and make me happy. However, I...
Difficulty coping
Oct 10, 2007 05:40AM in the Divorce & Breakups Community
Thanks so much for your kind words, prayers and support. I have realized that I really do need to take care of myself and so am making time for myself every day. I spend time meditating and talking with my creator daily. It really does help. I have asked for the strength to do what I must. Protecting my step-daughter was never something I had to think ab...
Difficulty coping
Oct 09, 2007 05:30PM in the Divorce & Breakups Community
Thanks for sharing your story with me. They say what doesn't kill us does make us stronger! I don't know about that. Thank goodness we do not act on our thoughts or else we would be in an even bigger mess. It bothers me that the law protects the criminal, while their victims have to deal with the aftermath. It also bothers me that while I do all this wor...
Difficulty coping
Oct 06, 2007 09:36AM in the Divorce & Breakups Community
Well, I am having the ups and downs of separation and dealing with the fact that my husband is to go to court on the assault & sexual assault against my step-daughter. What really gets me is that I was contacted by HIS lawyer and he will not be going to court next month because he claims he is ill...you bet he's sick...in the head! The good news is that...
Difficulty coping
Oct 01, 2007 05:12AM in the Divorce & Breakups Community
Thanks everyone for your comments. Yes, I am a spiritual person & that has gotten me thru some very rough times. My faith has been tested & when things are really low, an angel has been sent to help me. Nobody ever said that life would be easy & I have never expected it to be. I am just tired and get down now & then. Dealing with the anger I feel has been a s...