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Aug 31, 2014 in the Anger Management Community - 8
Oh thank God that you put an end to that. How incredibly ignorant in this day and age and to be so blatantly cruel. He had so many issues. I hope you don't back peddle and let him back into your life. He's a loser, you deserve so much better for yourself, and your children (if you choose to have kids). Our partners MUST be proper role models for our...
Aug 31, 2014 in the Anger Management Community - 2
I've heard of people crying after an orgasm, so anger is just another emotion right? The fact that you have anger, may be unresolved issues that you need to explore? with a therapist or in a journal, (or both). It helps to talk about what it is that has happened in your past that has made you feel bad and now angry. You can do that here, as it's ano...
Aug 31, 2014 in the Anger Management Community - 2
You seem to be searching for equanimity. The Wikepida definition page at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equanimity describes equanimity as this. Equanimity (Latin: æquanimitas having an even mind; aequus even animus mind/soul) is a state of psychological stability and composure which is undisturbed by experience of or exposure to emotions, pain, or other phen...
Aug 31, 2014 in the Anger Management Community - 3
PS you can use your journal here and mark it to be seen only by you. I keep my recipes there.
Aug 31, 2014 in the Anger Management Community - 3
You've taken responsibility for your behavior here today, by acknowledging that your short fuse has more to do with the last 12 years than what's going on today with your boyfriend. And that's good, although you have to also look at what it is about your relationship that may need a spring cleaning. You could start if you haven't alread...
Aug 30, 2014 in the Abuse Support Community - 15
You are enabling him by being there or by not charging him and getting a protective order. You made a mistake picking this man to father your child.and you need to recognize this so that it doesn't happen again. Your time should be spent with your child, and getting loans to pay for college (if you haven't gone already) so that you can support this ...
Aug 30, 2014 in the Abuse Support Community - 5
Sometimes women accept this type of relationship because they are more comfortable with chaos (as i was when i was younger). BUT as mothers, we must seek out understanding of our situations and ACT in the best interests of the children. You son will be abusive, or he will be a victim if you continue to have this man as a role model. You need to charge him, a...
Aug 30, 2014 in the Abuse Support Community - 8
he smokes constantly and gets violent if he doesnt have his pot and there's proof, broke dishes, windows etc. When this happens, you pick up the phone and call the police, They will remove him and tell you to go and get yourself a protection order that would prevent him from coming within a certain distance of you or your home. That would be the easi...
Aug 21, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 10
yeah, you said that her moving in was supposed to allow you to save. Does that mean that she said she was going to contribute and didn't? Or that what she contributed was less than her upping the hydro bill? Any way you look at it, it's just about over, but now you have to worry about not having a car with air for your son. Sad it couldn't have...
Aug 21, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 6
I understand 100% where you're coming from. The thing is this. He may try to make himself feel better by being a good grandpa and think little or at least not be able to communicate to you that he wished he had been a better dad, and he appreciates the fact that you are giving him another chance, at least to be a good grand dad. Grand kids are great for ...