I agree that you can't throw away your future with your kids and your good husband (who is out there waiting to meet you and start a life with you) for.....well....anything. You just can't do that to yourself.
This guy is undoubtedly holding these kids as part of the plan to sucker you into taking his abuse, maybe he did that with their biologic...
I hope you have the strength to get this guy out of the house, we are far too evolved to be staying with a man (for whatever reason) that makes our skin crawl and stands in the way of our career. This is all on him, not you. Whether he does what it takes to change, is not your responsibility , but his.
Please don't feel sorry for him enough to throw ...
Hey Mike, you're right, not all are fortunate enough to get to a treatment center. It's unfortunate that they are not more accessible to everyone, but I can tell you that you don't need treatment to get through detox, and involve yourself in a 12 step program. Basically that is the outcome of any treatment program. There will be many people tha...
Hey Coco, i was thinking , have you ever watched any Property Virgins shows? There are young couples, a few years older than you, that are looking to buy their first home. You can tell that these couples have positive relationships, by their mannerisms. Many times they share on camera that they are college sweethearts, or they met from friends at work. So a ...
I found my best support for the same DOC in a same sex closed meeting. Hoping you're feeling better, longer, sooner.....NH
Glad to hear it's all worked itself out for you. Happy sleep time. NH
Thanks so much for your post. It's incredible what you've done with so many challenges. I'm sorry to hear your daughter is so sick. God bless her, and you and your family for being her support. I hope your husband can stop the with the booze. I know how hard it was for me, but after it was all said and done, i was incredulous as to why i couldn...
Thanks for the post. It's good to know how you were affected, and better to know you're getting off it. My best to your family. NH
I'm so happy to see you're going to a meeting after work. I found alot of support in the closed women's meetings, and met a lot of good friends there that had the same challenges as myself, when i needed them the most. It was surreal to me to be going through detox and early sobriety without friends in AA. I felt surrounded by people, 24/7 who...
This guy is too old for you. I married my first husband when I was younger than you, and he was 10 years my senior. He took advantage of a young girl, because he was a loser and couldn't make it with a women his own age. I found this out too late. He used me and threw me away, and found another young girl to "play" with. There are many player...