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Nov 24, 2014 in the Abuse Support Community - 5
Thanks for the reply. Sorry it took so long to get back to you. Hope you are well. Listen girl, it is far more important that you are in a loving, caring environment for yourself, and this baby. You need to stay with your mom, where you are , or move with her to Atlanta if that is what she is going to do. Moving could be the best new start for you and the bab...
Nov 24, 2014 in the Abuse Support Community - 4
I agree with Rock Rose. I don't think that you can prove rape, even to yourself. You went along with what was going on, even though it might have hurt, you remember the act, and you don't remember saying no. If a sex act is occurring and you don't say NO, then it is concentual. and since you were in a black out (at times) you don't now...
Nov 24, 2014 in the Abuse Support Community - 2
I agree with everything that Anniebrooke has said, plus a little something else. You cannot accept this behavior, because that is called enabling. That means that you allow him to continue down this path (by not leaving and/or insisting that he get's therapeutic help). I hope you do break up with him, and not worry one little bit about what anyone thinks...
Nov 18, 2014 in the Alcoholic, Living with an Community - 3
I'm wondering if you have kids at home with you, and if so, what it's doing to them? My husband and myself got clean and sober 15 years ago together. We often laugh (now that the nightmare is over) about the abuses. You'll never hear a gratefully recovering addict say that they regret getting sober. It's as much doable for your husband as...
Nov 18, 2014 in the Alcoholic, Living with an Community - 5
OK 1) I dont have to deal with it. I am a grown woman with a career and my head on straight. I take care of my kids,,,,,,,,,,,,,, I think this is the answer you're searching for. What is this action they are witnessing dong to them while they're growing? Are they going to be a statistic and go down the wrong path themselves? Get your kids in...
Nov 18, 2014 in the Alcoholic, Living with an Community - 5
So your husband is refusing to deal with his own demons, and his actions are putting the children at risk of self medicating themselves, as statistics prove. Is it worth further enabling if you truly look at the potential costs in terms of your children's lives? If your husband's actions are harming your kids, and you refuse to leave I think ...
Nov 16, 2014 in the Abuse Support Community - 17
i'M proud to see that you have intervened on behalf of yourself and your baby. You are right to insist on Anger Management Classes. Also absolutely document hysterical calls, texts etc. to have it as evidence so that you don't have to hand your baby over to someone so out of control. If it were me, I would not admit his paternity at all, until he go...
Oct 22, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 15
THIS IS AN OLD POST FROM OCTOBER 2010 AND THE POSTER PROBABLY HAS NOT LOOKED AT THIS SINCE THEN....
Oct 22, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 3
Well, it sounds like he just wants to be friends with you, that he still may have residual feelings for his ex, and if he is single, he wants to date, and not necessarily be in a committed relationship. I think you need to get back to the mind set you were in when they were going out. How to do that? Maybe look elsewhere and find someone else that you might ...
Oct 22, 2014 in the Abuse Support Community - 5
Yes, I found this post hard to follow, but if you did hit your partner first, then he will say he was defending himself, yada yada yada The first sentence was enough though, to determine whether this is a relationship that is worthy of your time,, but MOST IMPORTANTLY worthy in the life of the child you are carrying....... A woman might take abuse the...