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Sep 14, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 37
SINCE THIS WAS A ONE TIME THING, AND WON'T BE REPEATED personally, in your case, i wouldn't tell the therapist, once that bell has been rung, you can't take it back,, Suffice it that you recognize that there are some issues in your marriage that you want to work on (use another reason as the catalyst) Be the best man you can be, to keep your...
Sep 14, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 6
If i were you, once the baby was born i would definitely suggest you getting a paternity test. Hate to say it, but this reaction of hers could be as a result of an extra marital affair. But that's not for a long time coming. You may see such a huge resemblance that it's not necessary. You can say that you love her enough to abide by her wishes, ...
Sep 14, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 23
If that happened to me, I wouldn't be the one picking up the phone. On the contrary, IF he has your family's number/address I would let all and any communication come from him. The most important thing you have to do for yourself, is to NOT back peddle and return to such a man (IF he truly is despicable and you did not cause yourself to be told ...
Sep 14, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 14
I think there are some men that have only 4 topics of conversation. My husband's friend is a total sexist and if he could get my husband involved he would. He tries. (Thankfully my husband turns red and turns away. I picked him in good part to this very quality.) It is SO nice to have the man stand up for you and protect you from "locker room talk&q...
Aug 31, 2014 in the Anger Management Community - 8
Oh thank God that you put an end to that. How incredibly ignorant in this day and age and to be so blatantly cruel. He had so many issues. I hope you don't back peddle and let him back into your life. He's a loser, you deserve so much better for yourself, and your children (if you choose to have kids). Our partners MUST be proper role models for our...
Aug 31, 2014 in the Anger Management Community - 2
I've heard of people crying after an orgasm, so anger is just another emotion right? The fact that you have anger, may be unresolved issues that you need to explore? with a therapist or in a journal, (or both). It helps to talk about what it is that has happened in your past that has made you feel bad and now angry. You can do that here, as it's ano...
Aug 31, 2014 in the Anger Management Community - 2
You seem to be searching for equanimity. The Wikepida definition page at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equanimity describes equanimity as this. Equanimity (Latin: æquanimitas having an even mind; aequus even animus mind/soul) is a state of psychological stability and composure which is undisturbed by experience of or exposure to emotions, pain, or other phen...
Aug 31, 2014 in the Anger Management Community - 3
PS you can use your journal here and mark it to be seen only by you. I keep my recipes there.
Aug 31, 2014 in the Anger Management Community - 3
You've taken responsibility for your behavior here today, by acknowledging that your short fuse has more to do with the last 12 years than what's going on today with your boyfriend. And that's good, although you have to also look at what it is about your relationship that may need a spring cleaning. You could start if you haven't alread...
Aug 30, 2014 in the Abuse Support Community - 18
You are enabling him by being there or by not charging him and getting a protective order. You made a mistake picking this man to father your child.and you need to recognize this so that it doesn't happen again. Your time should be spent with your child, and getting loans to pay for college (if you haven't gone already) so that you can support this ...