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Aug 21, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 10
yeah, you said that her moving in was supposed to allow you to save. Does that mean that she said she was going to contribute and didn't? Or that what she contributed was less than her upping the hydro bill? Any way you look at it, it's just about over, but now you have to worry about not having a car with air for your son. Sad it couldn't have...
Aug 21, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 6
I understand 100% where you're coming from. The thing is this. He may try to make himself feel better by being a good grandpa and think little or at least not be able to communicate to you that he wished he had been a better dad, and he appreciates the fact that you are giving him another chance, at least to be a good grand dad. Grand kids are great for ...
Aug 21, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 27
I've read your other posts,I think it's very responsible for you to have cut out your friends and family that are using. That'on top of not being able to get close to your MIL is sad. I wish that she was more loving, but she probably is so scared her boy is going to go off and get himself in trouble that she's just not handling it well. To...
Aug 21, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 27
How long have you had to live there? how long will it take to get first and last months rent, if your man is working 72 hour weeks? Sounds like you can get out of there quickly. Beggars can't be choosers is an old saying. that i guess is truer than not. You could learn to use this experience to learn humility. It is a virtue, as well as equanimity is...
Aug 21, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 15
I'm wondering if you need to take some time for yourself, at the gym, or yoga class? You'd be working on raising your self esteem. Maybe get in with a group of ladies looking for stress relief and feeling their best? Maybe a college course, or class? Something to help you raise your self esteem? Best of everything to you dear. PS. I alsoI think ...
Aug 21, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 6
No it's not normal, in my experience, at all. Sex is usually a very high priority for young men. Not sure why it's not with yours. Is this about his inability to value you? Perhaps. The GREAT news is that you are not married, and do not have kids. and although it might hurt like h e l l to walk away now, it's better that you do it now. Like a b...
Aug 21, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 17
You are both very young and as such, unwise. As a mom, it's time for you, at least, to wise up. Don't enable the father of your baby to continue acting out as he is. Put an end to it. Tell him he needs to grow up, fast. Then, make your journey about you, and what you need to do for you. You have chosen to have a child out of wedlock, and it'...
Aug 21, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 9
Everybody makes mistakes, it's how one handles the situation after they are aware of their errors that defines them. If you could clam yourself, and consider now that the most important thing is that your child have two parents that love them, is the priority, then you will gain the respect that you need. Try and be understanding as to why he and his fa...
Aug 21, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 19
I agree 100% with GigBella as well. Be good to yourself and don't let anyone take away the love you're feeling within. God bless you both.
Aug 21, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 5
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equanimity