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Apr 15, 2014 in the Alcoholic, Living with an Community - 8
I believe in LOVE to help an addict, enough love to go around, Enough love to arrange for therapy for both partners and any kids involved. Kids do become aware early on as something amiss, later alcoholism is far too immense and broad to be hidden, and any kids that are kept within the walls of addiction, will likely either become addicted, or victims of abus...
Apr 15, 2014 in the Alcoholic, Living with an Community - 5
It clearly sounds like your wife is an alcoholic. Alanon is a great place to start for you, however, that in itself, does not allow you to assist your wife, who is failing as a mother and a wife, currently. Your children will see this as just that. They will also manage to see your failure should you allow this to progress. After all, alcoholism is a progres...
Apr 15, 2014 in the Alcoholic, Living with an Community - 5
after re reading, the statement I made... selfish as he may be ,is living in a hell only an alcoholic can attest to or understand. I take that back. It's purely wrong upon contemplation. Of course you are in the same amount of hell, and as people have said, the alcoholic is feeling no pain. But bottom line, the alcoholic throws their lives away, their ca...
Apr 15, 2014 in the Alcoholic, Living with an Community - 5
CML I thoroughly respect your feelings and your stance. , however, i don't see the selfish alcoholic as a creature bereft of the ability to love. I usually see two sick people, whereas before or without the union, there would be one. I understand wanting to love someone who is sick, but in order to do so we must seek every assistance. We must read the f...
Apr 15, 2014 in the Alcoholic, Living with an Community - 6
Thanks TTinKK, I come back to see if there's a response. Unfortunately , it looks like this poster may be continuing to go on without help. I pray this is not so, for her her husband and their baby. That's really all we can and will do when the site goes untended.
ditto to all of the above , great points. and yes, congrats on the 6 months for yourself. I would definitely reconcile in your own mind, that he does NOT need a vehicle to get a job, he can take public transportation, what type of jobs has he had in the past? Did he have to have a vehicle to work, or did he say he needed a vehicle to "get to work&qu...
Apr 12, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 11
Maybe check out talking to a therapist about why you chose him, and why you stayed as long as you did, so you have not a chance of repeating it with the same type of guy. Sounds like you've been there and done that, now its' time to find the right man with the right morals. IT"S NOT YOU. Please remember that always. You can't make a silk p...
Apr 11, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 5
Can you tell us how long you've been married, how old you and your husband and kids are. And the reason is, that we go through stages in our lives. Can you tell us how you think you love this man? How much time you've spent with him for instance. With the info you've given, it sounds like you're in lust with someone that you couldn'...
Mar 30, 2014 in the Abuse Support Community Best Answer - 17
I was in a relationship like that when I was her age for seven long dreadful years. Yeah, there was something that looked like love there,, but the fact is that he was not trustworthy and without that, there's nothing. I pray she get's the strength to leave, it sounds like she's got it gong on having two job offers, and friends. She just might ...
Mar 29, 2014 in the Abuse Support Community - 17
It is SO frustrating and such a sad state of affairs when women will only leave their abusive partner if child services gets involved... I understand why you wouldn't think you would be able to suggest Medhelp to these girls, as you've opened up here concerning their bad behavior towards you. The fact is that you've said nothing untrue, and the...