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Dec 22, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 10
is this your biological father are your parents divorced why are you watching TV on your bed with him do you live with your mom or dad are there other children has dad always been inappropriate with you If you cannot talk to your mom or tell your dad to stop, talk to a teacher or guidance counselor about what is going on. They do care and have man...
Dec 22, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 2
Other than sex ed in the schools, sex ed info happens even more between teens and young adults. I had sex ed in school and with 6 brothers would listen to every stitch of advice my best girlfriends were willing to share. If you are uncomfortable with any questions from any of your friends, you can always say " I don't know the answer to that &qu...
Dec 22, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 5
When I was a lot younger, I took on the responsibility for my mens failures and indescretions. Therapy helped me understand that we cannot change anyone at all. They must want to change to make a better life for themselves, not to make us happy or help us feel secure. Your security or insecurity is up to you to resolve. I do hope you continue your t...
Nov 30, 2014 in the Back & Neck Community - 3
Philnoir is completely spot on ....it takes time for the body to heal, I had the spinal fusion 4 years ago and it took a good 18 months to even feel like the human I was before the surgery.... Rehab is very important with any surgery, especially back surgery, I hope you have a long range plan with motion and rehab which will make all the difference in the ...
Drifter 0213 is correct that your husband needs deeper help. Has he been diagnosed with PTSD and does he go to therapy or is he on any medication to help with the PTSD. Many mental illnesses can mimic PTSD and your husband does need to be diagnosed by an qualified professional. As for yourself, there is nothing wrong with taking a time out and moving t...
Nov 24, 2014 in the Cats Community - 15
I know that Opus has alot of good allergy sites that may really help you. For myself we stopped all smoking of any kind in the house, started using allergy free soaps and clothes softeners in the wash, changed the filters in the heating and cooling ducts on a more frequent schedule, kept the windows closed in the summer so dust and pollen would not blow in...
Nov 24, 2014 in the Cats Community - 4
Reduce the urge to fight by adding more territorial space so the cats don't have to share climbing, hiding, and perching areas. Create a house of plenty with MORE toys, cat trees, litter boxes and feeding stations than the cats can use all at once. Your 8 year old is the Queen of the house and it may take awhile for this to resolve. I know kittens ...
Nov 24, 2014 in the Relationships Community - 14
i think specialmom is correct. but what he needs to remember if that is the case is that sperm can leak out even if not a full ejaculation. many babies are conceived by what we call fooling around, and i was wondering if the two of you have talked about birth control and other deeper issues. Good luck to you
Nov 24, 2014 in the Senior Health Community - 88
My aunt had a relatively pain free life until she was 85 when she had a surgery and got sepsis. we talked nearly every day and she said that having sepsis was the most painful thing she ever experienced. i read your post and just had to stop and wish you continued good health M
Nov 23, 2014 in the Cats Community - 2
I have noticed with my girls, that every once and awhile they do not get out of bed at all except for their gravy treat. and then go right back to bed. This is not a normal occurence for my girls, but the next day they are back to normal behavior...I sure wish they could either human talk with me or write on my chalkboard what is going on with them in most ...