Best of luck to you girl. You are strong you will do just fine. Great you have the support from your hubby...... I will still keep you in my prayers as you do for me as well. we'll catch up after your surgery and you are feeling better.
or.....use lubricants and alot of foreplay to moisten you up.no offense but is he larger than normal that could be the why its hurting you but the others advice are good too ...check with a doctor too...good luck !
yes i agree move out NOW....he will do as he threats trust that! get away