May 08, 2008 09:53AM in the Caregivers Community
A HUGE hug to you sister!!!!! and I do mean sister because I swear we HAVE THE SAME MOTHER!!! In my case and to make things more challenging my mother has 2 sisters who visit 2-3 times a week and are even worse. What the sisters can't use, they bring to my mother especially in the way of flea market finds, clothes, and food/packets. Everytime we would ope...
May 03, 2008 04:11AM in the Caregivers Community
I highly commend the task you have undertaken to work in a nursing home, AND to be a caregiver for your husband. You stated, "I deal with illness on a daily basis." It seems to me you are dealing with illness on a 24 hour basis. It's even MORE important that you take time for yourself in doing something other than helping. Like that walk you took with you...
Apr 10, 2008 02:40AM in the Caregivers Community
Here's a suggestion that helped me with my mom when my dad died. She had the same problem of depression after his death. She would say over and over again, I just miss talking to your father. He was always such a good listener. One day, I decided to buy a helium balloon that says I LOVE YOU. I told her to hold, love, hug, talk, and kiss the balloon as if...
Apr 10, 2008 02:28AM in the Caregivers Community
To: Everyone interested in this subject I posted this infomation on a specific post, but then realized ALL caregivers need this information. I cut and pasted my original information and started this new thread. First of all, know that I am an Occupational Therapist who works in home health and deal with this problem EVERY single day. At the same time, I...
Apr 10, 2008 02:16AM in the Caregivers Community
First of all, know that I am an Occupational Therapist who works in home health and deal with this problem EVERY single day. At the same time, I was a caregiver for my father for 6 years and now my mother for the past 12 years. I have MUCH empathy and personal/professional experience that I could write non-stop for 24 hours per day 7 days a week and 365 day...
Apr 09, 2008 05:35PM in the Grief & Loss Community
Mommygilmore's original message hit a home run and is familiar with what I had with my dad. We were best of buddies and had phone conversations frequently. After he passed, I didn't know how I was going to surive or get through the day. Nine years later, I still miss him dearly. One thing that helped me is to take a helium balloon whenever I missed him an...