At many colleges there is a campus counseling center that offers short-term or medium-term counseling to its students. If this is an option for you, I would recommend that you seek this out as a way of dealing with all the stress you're facing right now.
Have you been to your primary doctor about these symptoms? I would not begin to speculate about the cause of these pains, stress or otherwise, until you've been checked out by your doctor.
Thanks for the additional information. It sounds to me like you told him very clearly that it wasn't "normal" for grown men to be sleeping in the same bed as their mother. And while you may be correct in that it reflects some dependency issues, I wonder if you feel the impact in your relationship beyond being weirded out by the information. I ask...
Have you consulted a urologist regarding your genital issue? Before getting into the emotional issues, you may want to see a urologist first if you haven't yet.
I think you hit the nail on the head -- even though you want to grow up, you are also anxious about leaving home, particularly mom, and I think that is why you seem to have trouble with things such as recipes and going places alone. One place to start is to ask yourself, "what am I afraid of happening if I were to: use a phone/cook for myself/go somewhe...
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