Many men find it helpful to change their behavior and attitude, which means examining some of the reasons why you’re not lasting as long as you would like.
During their early self-pleasuring experiments, many men learn a very quick orgasm pattern in order to avoid detection—like in the bathroom (“You’ve been in there for hours! What are you doing?”) Learni...
I don't know either. However, when we first meet someone, we usually endow them with lots of qualities that make them appear more attractive. Take it slow, get to know this woman, and once you really know her, if you still have these feelings, then perhaps you're in love. You'll know. Dr. J
If you're seeing a sex therapist who has no clue, then you need to find another therapist who can help you. You wouldn't go to a mechanic who has no clue about fixing your car, would you? Time to find someone more qualified. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
OK. You can stop beating yourself now. You're not a horrible person. What you did isn't all that unusual, especially for people who are in any kind of deep psychic pain.
No one can tell you what to do. That's for you to figure out for yourself with the help of a skilled therapist. Please find someone with no agenda for "saving" yo...
You really should ask this question in the STD expert forum at:
If you want statistics, that's the best place.
If you used a condom and spermicide properly, you used effective risk reduction, but there are no guarantees. But you know that. As for oral sex, it's definitely NOT safe, so you...
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