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Nov 06, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum - 6
Hello First, you can't do anything for your bf, he has to take steps himself. These are serious symptoms. He needs to see a neurologist ASAP to determine what is blocking his sensations. Dr. J
Nov 06, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum - 3
You don't have to accept it. There could be many causes. The first step is to see a urologist for a complete exam. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
Nov 06, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum - 3
Many men find it helpful to change their behavior and attitude, which means examining some of the reasons why you’re not lasting as long as you would like. During their early self-pleasuring experiments, many men learn a very quick orgasm pattern in order to avoid detection—like in the bathroom (“You’ve been in there for hours! What are you doing?”) Learni...
Nov 06, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum - 5
I don't know either. However, when we first meet someone, we usually endow them with lots of qualities that make them appear more attractive. Take it slow, get to know this woman, and once you really know her, if you still have these feelings, then perhaps you're in love. You'll know. Dr. J
Nov 06, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum - 3
Hello The comments above are based on misinformation. Please see your gynecologist to find out whether you have an infection and what's going on. Dr. J
Nov 06, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum - 1
If you're seeing a sex therapist who has no clue, then you need to find another therapist who can help you. You wouldn't go to a mechanic who has no clue about fixing your car, would you? Time to find someone more qualified. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
Nov 06, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum - 4
OK. You can stop beating yourself now. You're not a horrible person. What you did isn't all that unusual, especially for people who are in any kind of deep psychic pain. No one can tell you what to do. That's for you to figure out for yourself with the help of a skilled therapist. Please find someone with no agenda for "saving" yo...
Nov 06, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum - 1
Please ask your question in the gynecology expert forum at: http://www.medhelp.org/forums/show/103
Nov 06, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum - 3
This column is for discussing sexual and relationship concerns. Please ask your question in the Urology Expert Forum at: www.medhelp.org/forums/show/113
Oct 25, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum - 3
Hello You really should ask this question in the STD expert forum at: http://www.medhelp.org/forums/STDs/show/116 If you want statistics, that's the best place. If you used a condom and spermicide properly, you used effective risk reduction, but there are no guarantees. But you know that. As for oral sex, it's definitely NOT safe, so you...