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How i'll act after losing virginity
7 hours in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum
Hello First, before you are sexual with anyone, you need accurate information and you need to make informed choices about risk reduction. Please go to the following pages on this site for information regarding the following: risk reduction: http://www.medhelp.org/medical-information/show/1723/Safe-sex- condoms: http://www.medhelp.org/medical-in...
Sexual abuse from family member
Feb 09, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum
Hello First, why are you hanging out with your stepbrother when you know he's a creep? Stay away from him! You need counseling to help you process what happened, learn from it and move on. Call your local mental health agency and ask for a referral to a counselor who is trained to help people with sexual concerns. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
Getting worried
Feb 09, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum
Patrice: You are asking for help in the wrong place. No one can help you except a physician. If you're worried about pregnancy, pain, etc., you need to see a gynecologist NOW. Dr. J
I need help
Feb 09, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum
Hello I'm sorry, but you don't need "just a little help." You need to see your gynecologist ASAP. There are many possibilities regarding this lump, and no one can tell you what they are without a thorough examination. You need to get over any embarrassment. Health care professionals see all parts of the body as the same, without any judgments. Si...
can anyone help
Feb 07, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum
Hi. There are several misconceptions in your post. First, there's no such thing as too much or too little sexual desire. Everyone is different, and everyone has different sexual needs. It sounds to me as though you're worried that no one person can satisfy your sexual desires. In fact, YOU are in charge of your desires. You can have an orgasm any time you ...
bad habit
Feb 05, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum
Hello It seems you lack basic information about your body and its functions. Your penis is reacting to being aroused. All healthy penises react this way to stimulation--whether physical or mental. You probably aren't having enough orgasms to relieve the sexual tension that has built up. The best way I know to release this tension is in self-pleasurin...
Y the pain
Feb 05, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum
Hello First of all, I can't really give you any opinions about your wife's pain without getting details directly from her. All I can do is guess. And trying to have an orgasm together is first unrealistic, and second, has nothing to do with this problem. It could be psychological, emotional or physical. To rule out anything physical, I suggest your w...
anal sex
Feb 03, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum
Hi there. Check with your gynecologist regarding your medical history, because it may affect what kinds of activities you can engage in while pregnant. For most women, anal sex is perfectly safe during pregnancy. And, no, it won't hit the fetus' head, which is nowhere near your anus/rectum. Check out the anatomy drawings in the pregnancy section of this si...
acne and oral sex?
Jan 30, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum
Hello As far as I know, acne is unrelated to oral sex. It's just a coincidence. However, acne can flare up if one doesn't wash thoroughly. It may be that your bf needs to wash his face more frequently. especially after going down on you. Dr. J
lower my husbands libido
Jan 30, 2012 in the Sexuality & Relationships Expert Forum
Hi. Your question is quite complex and not easily answered without a lot more information. I CAN tell you that there's a lot more going on here than just sex. What do you suppose is the reason why your husband is putting all this pressure on you to have sex daily? I wonder what sex means to him. This is a question to ask him. It seems unreasonable for him ...