Oct 10, 2009 09:09PM in the Bipolar Disorder Community
My advice would be to test his boundaries slowly before you let it all hang out. You don't need to let him in on all your emotional problems right away. I'm sure you have many great qualities/attributes and it's advisable to let him see those before he sees the emotional instability. Some people are more equip than others to handle an emotionally unsta...
Aug 16, 2009 10:10PM in the Bipolar Disorder Community
There will always be people in better and in worse positions in their life than you. That's the nature of the beast. My experience has been that most people are too focussed on themselves to really pay that much attention to others (unless they are looking for faults in which case one can never win anyhow). I'm glad you had a positive experience!!!
May 08, 2009 10:46PM in the Bipolar Disorder Community
In many ways my life is good. Although I'm not rich, I am financially stable. I have the means to travel, dine-out and enjoy the arts (all passions). I have an emotionally stable husband who loves me unconditionally. I have healthy parents. It’s unfortunate that with my emotional state I cannot always enjoy these things. Although I have a LOT of dow...
May 08, 2009 09:34PM in the Bipolar Disorder Community
This is embarrassing to admit but I find I that I'm often unaware of the things I'm doing. For example, I'll bite my nails, fidget, scratch or pick at my skin, play with my hair, stretch, etc. while in public. I do these things without even noticing. Sometimes coffee will drip onto my clothing and I won't notice until I see the stain. Or I'll walk or bum...
May 05, 2009 12:20AM in the Bipolar Disorder Community
I never go shopping when I'm hypmanic. Part of the reason I don't go shopping is because when hypomanic I am not able to make good decisions. I'm such a spendthrift that I've always been cautious during those times. However, I have used other ways to dull my feelings, which are just as destructive or perhaps even more so to my health. I'm also a total ...
May 04, 2009 10:41PM in the Bipolar Disorder Community
I completely understand where you are coming from in your post - "I try not to see people as "them". I mean the "us" and "them’. Also forgiveness needs to be a factor here. Some people's senses of humour are so cynical and sarcastic. Let's not write people off without due warrant." That is completely true. I tr...