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Jul 09, 2011 in the Relationship Decisions Expert Forum - 3
Mandita, Both are possible sources of difficulty. A good idea to check with the MD first to rule out other issues. Perhaps he can specifically ask the doc about the second issue you raise. If extreme, it could conceivably cause the problem. Regards, Dr. P.
Jul 05, 2011 in the Relationship Decisions Expert Forum - 3
Dear Mandita, There are many things that could be causing the problem. The issue is to narrow down the possibilities. I can just head you in this direction at this point. You’ll need more information and some expert opinion in other areas. Here are some thoughts. He’s always had the issue. This tells us that it’s not particular to YOU. Either he has is...
Jul 05, 2011 in the Relationship Decisions Expert Forum - 2
Dear Some John Doe, Yes, I can indeed be contacted by email. Try me at rnpomerance followed by the usual AT sign, followed by comcast, then a dot and a net. If this doesn't work, try reaching Medhelp directly, and likely they will patch you through to me. It's not clear why the system didn't alert me to your post. Sorry. Dr. P.
May 15, 2011 in the Relationship Decisions Expert Forum - 4
Hello Tanya, First, my disclaimer: I haven't met you, your in-laws, or your husband. Individuals may have personal idiosyncrasies that may render evaluations based on culture and strategy useless. So please take these words only as background ideas for your upgrade via more intimate knowledge of the situation. You may also want to consult someone who...
May 10, 2011 in the Relationship Decisions Expert Forum - 4
Hi Tanya, I want to give your question a considered response. It is complicated. I'll be back to you soon. Dr. P.
Apr 08, 2011 in the Relationship Decisions Expert Forum - 5
Dear Giraffe, Thanks for the kind words! I’ve reviewed our previous communication of March last year. I remember commenting at length on how unsupportive and “impossible” your mother seemed to be. I mentioned there that an entire change of perspective was required for you to maintain a sense of personal integrity. My response to the present problem ...
Apr 08, 2011 in the Relationship Decisions Expert Forum - 5
Dear Concerned, The more the objective data says he's doing right, the more you might want to look at why you can't let go. Beyond this, he might want to increase his awareness of any manipulation, and work on it. Those seem the important points for now, and I hope you both stay on them. Best Regards, Dr. P.
Apr 07, 2011 in the Relationship Decisions Expert Forum - 5
Dear Concerned, First, my disclaimer of sorts: having never met either of you, the comments below should be taken only as general guidelines. Validity can only be established by face to face and professional contact. That said: There are a bunch of elements in your situation that we need to detail, and that you need to be aware of ongoing. There ...
Apr 06, 2011 in the Relationship Decisions Expert Forum - 5
Dear Giraffe, Speaking for Medhelp admin, our apologies in not responding sooner. Personally, I just learned of your email. Usually I am notified immediately. I will think about your very valid and complex question, and get back to you in the next day or two. That is better for both of us than my simply dashing something off. Sincerely, Dr....
Apr 06, 2011 in the Relationship Decisions Expert Forum - 5
Dear Concernedabit77, Speaking for Medhelp admin, our apologies in not responding sooner. Personally, I just learned of your email. Usually I am notified immediately. I will think about your very valid and complex question, and get back to you in the next day or two. That is better for both of us than my simply dashing something off. Sincerely, ...