Thanks. :) It hurts so much to know he doesn't like what I look like. I feel as if I am not able to hold his attention anymore and that scares me. And he is usually such a supportive partner that I am not getting any sympathy from friends/family. They feel sure that I must have misunderstood him. He has admitted to me that I am right, but he is too ashamed to admit it to anyone else. I understand his point though, I was 15kg lighter when he married me and in comparison I am a lot larger now. I just hope he is patient, because although I know I can loose the weight, I don't intend to until after I finish breastfeeding. The health of my baby is the most important thing to me. My self confidence is shot though. I hope that you get more support!