I read your note to the 16 year old that was concerned that she was bisexual. I thank heaven you responded to her. I have been asking that question for years. I'm afraid, this is hard to write, but due to abuse and parental teachings I have sexual dysfunction. I am female and love kissing men and all that but when it gets to genital contact...all sensations stop. It made for a lot of faked orgasms when I was married. I should have gotten an Emmy! I just started seeing a therapist but she wouldn't comment as to whether or not I am lesbian, bisexual or heterosexual. I couldn't find anything on the web despite numerous searches. Thank you so much. If you are ever down, please know that you really helped someone. Yea! Where did you learn all of that?