One more quick thing--I have a husband of thirty years too! Pretty cool huh? I saw on your mood you were gaining weight. The meds they put me on for depression during tx made me gain over 60 lbs. This was DURING tx when most people lose it. Since then I've lost about 20 and hover around there, gaining or losing a pound or two, but can't get the weight off. Never had that much trouble controlling it before. Not taking the meds anymore but the weights still there....
Nice to hear from you. I am short on time now, but I will send you a little chat in the next day or two. It's always good to find others who can help you feel like you're not just crazy. I would be interested in hearing some of the things you've gone thru. Before during and after if you're willing to share. I haven't looked to see if you have a journal yet. Would definitely like to spend some time hearing you. Thanks for commenting and don't feel obligated to share if you don't want to. Take care.