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Just a quick note to say hi!
You deserve a big bear hug!
You're in my thoughts all the time, but especially today.
Thank you for everything!
Welcome to our community!
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hope you feel better soon!
Congratulations! Time for a celebration...
Happy Birthday!
Avatar universal
08/09
I think the best way to go in to a doctor is to just have complete confidence in what you want/need...Dont go in there thinking or acting as if you had/have a problem with narcotics, people can always tell! so just having confidence and conviction that you are not a bad person.. thats the major thing..
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329994 tn?1301663248
08/09
Jen, it is only natural for you to feel this way. Please don't beat yourself up about it. You miss your mom. and I hope in your heart you realize that it was not up to you to save her.You have gone through so much this year, you still need time to heal. Do you have someone close by that you can talk to? a counselor? What is going on with boyfriend? I am thinking of you,
colleen
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08/09
And your first and last name starts with J too so we've got 3 J's,what a match but leave me alone!I get kicked out when I leave notes to you.Please Please let me play by heart and stay away stay away!Don't talk with me and oh poor me you want to reveal my full name,GOSH!
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07/09
Just a quick note to say hi! Just hung out around the house today. That's all I felt like doing. I know, things will get better. I'm just waiting for that time.  Wondering how you're doing and Kobe. TTYL

Madlyn
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329994 tn?1301663248
07/09
Hi Jen,
I haven't heard from you inawhile and I am wondering if you are ok? What is happening at home? When I left for vacation, it wasn't so good. Please let me know how you are when you get a chance, ok?
Many hugs,
Colleen
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07/09
Just a quick note to say hi! Have you heard anything about Marie's surgery.
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07/09
Hi Jen            I guess i'm a little better.  There are times where i wanna pack it in, but other times when i'm with my parents where i feel good.  I could never hurt them.    I'm so conflicted because i loved my brother so much but he destroyed himself slowly over 20 or so years.  He was just starting to come around and get positive about life, writing letters to his on again off again girlfriend.  His letters were of a "i'm not scared anymore"    "i'm ready to take life on"  type nature.  Then a week later he's gone.   it's so unfair.


Hank
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637356 tn?1301924822
07/09
Thank you I will try that. I had a friend that claimed to be able to see ghost and he would not enter my kids room because he said he was always standing in the corner of the room. He would also walk up and down the hall way. I think the only time it has really freaked me out is when me and DH were making love and the bedroom door was locked. Next thing I know the door swings open and then slams shut. I know most don't believe me when I tell them this but it did happen!!!! Very spooky and a big mood breaker...lol.
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680303 tn?1239984840
07/09
Hi Jen, time goes by so quick. Miraculously I am doing very well. After 4 long years, my legs feel so much better. My aim is to get off the one pain pill I take and I've been taking less and less. I do know I have to be careful but it feels like so much has healed, even when I turn. My husband still has the same troubles and I'm still pushing him to see more doctors and specialists. My aim for him is to get well and then I want to pack up and leave, lol. 4 years of nothing but basically misery is too long and I miss my son like crazy. I'll write you a message soon. If you have time write Cindy.
And write me to tell me how you are. Sorry I haven't been in touch.My step son is in Afgahnistan, which is hard on my husband too.

Love, Barbara  
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523728 tn?1264621521
07/09
Jen,  Your poor mom went thru so much!  It definitely does feel like you are drowning and the coughing is relentless.  They did not get all the fluid out so I go back later this week to try again.  Can't wait (NOT!)  Starting Gemzar and Cisplatin, hoping the fluid won't come back, but of course the harsh chemo has it's own difficulties.  Take care of you my dear,
Sharon
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07/09
Hi Jen, doin ok the now im 5 months pregnant so Im really trying not to stress out and become an emotional wreck although I know I will be next sunday. Thanks for your advice on the memorial. How are you doin? xx
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187666 tn?1331173345
07/09
I'm sorry things stink right now. My son went through something similar recently. I told him that just because someone's a "nice" person doesn't mean they're the "right" person for him. Whatever drew you two together at first just doesn't seem to be enough for the long haul. You are loved and lovable.  hugs, irene
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681888 tn?1272922309
07/09
hi jen im not to bad ,....i have my grandson staying with me for a while through the school holidays  ,...
and between him and my own son there is killing lol....there is only 2 and a half years between them ,...
they are like brothers they both want my attention toghter at the same time lol...other that that im ok ,.
so how are you getting on !!! truth now ;)
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07/09
Hi Jen How was the outing?Who doesn’t love a good picnic?The extremely hot barbeque with an extremely hot you...KIDDING!What did you do?What did you say?I hope there was good sunshine with cool breezes.Now I like it baby,ya it feels good to stand up for yourself!God Bless
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523728 tn?1264621521
07/09
Very sweet of you to gather that info for me.  Will know more about my future this week and make sure to post.
Sharon
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07/09
You deserve a big bear hug! See you are omline now. Wanted to let you know I was thinking about you and Kobe, and had you in our prayers (me and David) Even when we weree in Atkanta, I thought and worried about, I just have that motherly instinct and I feel something is out of orfer, Will continue to pray for you all. Drop me a PM, even if only a few words. You have become like a daughter to me.
Love ya girl,
Madlyn
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187666 tn?1331173345
07/09
Ah darlin'. That's so tough because we all have disagreements at times and power struggles. But it sounds like this is an ongoing thing where your feelings and opinions aren't valued as much as they should be. This may sound idealistic but when someone loves you, your feelings should be important because you're important to that person. Doesn't mean you'll always agree but at least you know he listens and cares enough to listen. I know it would hurt to "kick him to the curb" as you say but imagine 40 years of that constant stress and control issues. Would it be worth it? I'm so sorry. I think you're more valuable more than that. Many hugs to you.  irene
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329994 tn?1301663248
07/09
You deserve a big bear hug!  Saw your mood and wanted to send a quick note. I hope that you are alright? Everything ok? I hope this is not a huge problem, but just a blow up that happens to anyone. I am here if you need to talk ok? I went through 15 years of hell before I was divorced, so I probably can understand. Hugs for you, Colleen
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187666 tn?1331173345
07/09
Saw your mood. Is everything OK? None of my business, I know. Just hoping that whatever is going on is temporary and things smooth out for you soon.   irene
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07/09
Interesting Nickname.I was browsing and came across your profile.How come you don't have a pic?
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958098 tn?1246809218
07/09
Oh, sorry. Hehe. Anyways, she moved away because her and my dad are gonna get a divorce. She got tired of some of the stuff my dad was doing and how moody he gets sometimes. She moved in June 2006 and my dad and her still aren't divorced, even though she is already engaged to someone else. I'm kinda having a hard time dealing with the fact that her and my dad are never gonna get back together, but I guess I just have to get over it.
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681888 tn?1272922309
07/09
well thats so good to hear you are really looking after yourself now , thats what i like to hear ,
you have taking  a big job here on mh tyring to look after other people so you do have to look after yourself for that ,
and you also have a man and a son in your life now to ,,,,,,,,so here a smile :) all the way from ireland ,.
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681888 tn?1272922309
07/09
hi jen ,..........im not to bad now i had a week of it ,....dont be even thinking of birthdays ok,.....
i haven't been on mh for over a week now ,....im sure you where busy looking after people on mh ,.....
so have you been looking after yourself ! well i hope so ,....
i have to catch up with things now ,...take care jen and thanks for thinking of me xx........
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958098 tn?1246809218
07/09
My mom didn't pass away, she just lives in another state and I only get to see her like once a month. I'm sorry to hear about your mom. Even though I only see my mom every now and then, I still don't know what I would do without her. Thanks for the help!

Sara
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07/09
Just a quick note to say hi!
Hope the towel helps. Stress will tighten those muscles up and cause pain but when you are in pain it is very hard not to be stressed.
I have learned to live with things not being as clean as they used to be. It is just a fact of life at this time. I am not going to whack my neck or back out just to keep up on everything. Try just a little everyday until you are feeling better. I know some people just do not understand what you are going through and that will make it worse. I feel for you with that.
Remember when lifting or using your arms to do things carefully.
Chadry
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523728 tn?1264621521
07/09
Thanks for your kindness and concern.   Your little guy is lucky to have such a giving mom.  He is your top priority now, I would like to hear funny stories about him from time to time.
Sharon
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07/09
My cordless phone has in built answering maching , its digital so you don't loose your messages even when the power goes out . I set it to 4 rings so it picks up before vonage does and goodbye vonage ! Your answering system really ***** . When my phone's answering machine kicks in after 4 rings , the vonage thinks somebody has picked up the phone .
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06/09
Hi Jen how are you ? Feeling any better ? This is from singulair.com - "How to take SINGULAIR: Take SINGULAIR once a day in the morning or the evening, with or without food." The egg powder is really effective , I think it works best on an empty stomach but figure it out on your own with or without food . Sugar and caffeine cause stress , ideally you should take 2 grams of vitamin C a day . I have chewable ones , will send you some . To increase laptop's battery life , use it on power saver mode , the screen may dim down but increase the brightness . It is done by holding the FN key down and pressing  one of the f7 or f8 keys with a bulb sign on it . I hope you slept well like a log . Take care and God bless , Joy
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06/09
I never sent you stuff to keep our friendship,you were the only one receptive to spiritual knowledge and I sent you books and dvds,My comment was totally uncalled for,forgive me if you can and if you cannot then punish me,it was in a totally different context,you tell me how bad you hurt and I am a human being too and I feel other peoples pain and it pissed me you wouldn't let me help you.We are all children under one God.You think I am a stranger and all 6 billion souls on Earth are strangers?Heck No,I do the things I do for your soul,it has nothing to do with your present life situation,Now I hurt 'cos I unknowingly hurt you.
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06/09
Everyone is gifted - but some people never open their package
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06/09
You're in my thoughts all the time, but especially today. I arrived back home Sat. evening and will return early Monday am. I wanted to PM you, but sooooo tired. Will try and PM you after church tomorrow. Take care. I worried about you while I was gone.  Let me know how things are going. ( all things ) TTYL.
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06/09
Louis Hay healed her cancer by practicing what she taught,so there is nothing impossible,the universes,atoms exist as infinite waves of possibilities,you can be or do anything you want,even heal so called incurable diseases.The use of SCENAR in herniated disc patients eliminated the pain and you probably keeping it in some drawer as a souvenir from me.The transfer factors capsules contain growth hormones,have you noticed increased energy while on them?Some people can become hyper and this way you're just draining your energy away.Try to be peaceful,calm down the constant brain chatter,meditation is a great way for relaxation.
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